Questioning if I'm bisexual or not
chompchomp15
July 20th, 2024
So I'm female and I love men because men but sometimes I'll Catch myself looking at women and their ummm body and I like their bodies but not them so I don't know I've dated women in the past but I didn't feel anything for them so I don't know if I'm bi or not
Aayla
July 20th, 2024
@chompchomp15 It could be that you find women attractive sexually but not romantically, or maybe it's hard for you to imagine yourself in a romantic relationship with a woman because you've been brought up to consider straight love as "the norm" and anything else feels kind of weird.
The question is: potentially, does the idea of a relationship with a woman feel appealing to you? Maybe the women you have dated were not the right ones for you, but it doesn't mean you could not potentially like a woman. The very fact that you're open to dating them means there's some sort of attraction.
At the end of the day, though, your sexuality is simply what you feel you are. If "bi" feels like a fitting description, that's who you are! Otherwise, feel free to keep questioning, it can take time and there's nothing wrong with it
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The idea of dating a woman feels nice but I think you might be right that I just haven't found someone I want to be romantically involved with and thank you for answering ♡
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