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Situationship??

So I'm not too familiar with this app and new, but I've been having this issue lately with on of my friends, lets call her Ava, who I started to like for a few months now but she's not exactly the attractive type. And by that I mean she has alot of red flags. And she was in a toxic relationship with her boyfriend until they broke up and got back together, which was what I heard from her last before I stopped being around her. And idk if I should really consider her as even my friend anymore if I can't really see being in a relationship with her because she's so emotionally unstable. I thought she was cool in like an edgy mysterious way but now I see that she is kind of a social reject. Not to be mean or anything but her personality isn't the best. Maybe I just liked her style, but now that I see her everyday in class I just try my best to not look at her or pay her any attention. Was this the right choice or not?? Because now, I decided to hang more around these 2 other people, Jayce and Melanie, who were also close to Avery before they stopped being friends with her too. And Melanie is super nice to me but Jayce is more quiet. I feel better with them anyways. When I was with Ava and this other girl, Ray, who I sat with too, they were always on their phones or didn't talk. And always never responded or flaked out on plans when I tried to invite them somewhere twice. So whatever. Ray can stay with Ava, but I'm not going too. What do you guys think cuz I didn't want to stay with Ava or else my feelings for her wouldn't go away. Does anyone think that Jayce and Melanie like me now that they see I'm kind of wanting to be their friends instead??

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 January 11th

@raspberryGrapefruit9210

You can be friends with this new girls.

I understand you feel it's a better connection.

And I understand sometimes in life, we just fit better with different people 💚

But please just be mindful with people's feelings and the language you use when describing them because I'm sure this girl is not a social reject, ultimately who decides this in the first place 💚

Best of luck with the new friendships!

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User Profile: raspberryGrapefruit9210
raspberryGrapefruit9210 OP January 14th

Oh sorry!!! I meant that its like more awkward when it comes with like talking to other people for her with what I've seen so far. I didn't mean it in a rude way when saying that 😅. But yeah. I also ended up taking that decision and distancing myself for a bit. But no hate to her for sure, she just isnt my vibe but it's ok.

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