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gender questioning drama?

User Profile: patientNorth6685
patientNorth6685 October 20th

hi im Z (anonymous😭) and i go by she/they

recently theres been a lot of bad stuff happening but one of the worst things is the fact that my old class found my pronouns account (its a website). that account had every detail about me: my weird passions/hobbies, conditions and worst of all that im gender questioning.

my country is EXTREMELY transphobic/ homophobic and i know that most of that class is too.

ive tried ignoring it, as theyre not my classmates anymore, but problem is some of them might have connections with my family/ other people that im close with, which are ALSO extremely transphobic.

i dont know what to do, first im confused about my gender, then OTHERS find out i am confused about my gender... and it affects me in so many ways, as it was like a cherry on top above everything that has been happening the past few months...

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User Profile: Aayla
Aayla October 20th
@patientNorth6685 that's terrible, I'm sorry this happened to you. Your safety is what matters the most right now, so whatever you think will protect you is fair game - even if that might include making up a lie, saying it was all a joke, making up a character for a book or whatever.
It's also important to try and find resources for support in case things don't go well and your safety is threatened. You might try looking up lgbt+ support resources near you - even in queer phobic countries there is always at least some kind of support granted by associations or queer organizations.
And if you have a trusted friend that is supportive of you no matter what, hold on to them and don't hesitate to rely on them if you ever need support of any kind.

The world can be tough, intolerant, close minded, but not everyone is. There are people out there who will see and accept you for who you are. And no matter what happens, no one can ever take your identity away from you, and no one has the right to make you feel like you are not worthy of acceptance and support.
User Profile: patientNorth6685
patientNorth6685 OP October 20th

omg you're genuinely amazing thank you so so much <3

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