Do I give into desire?
I am a male, identify as heterosexual, married. I have been having strong desires to tie on a frilly apron, wear it and strut around the house doing housework. These are feelings I have had before and use to talk with my wife about, but she has told me she feels offended by the crossdressing nature. Any thoughts, ideas?
@Fonleo
Hey friend! Thanks for sharing, I know this might feel sensitive so I doubly appreciate your honesty.
I'm sorry to hear about the response you've gotten when you've brought this up before, these feelings can be confusing and scary and deserve to be met with curiosity and respect. Of course, we're all in our own places and doing our best with what we have <3
These urges seem worth exploring, especially considering you've felt this way for a while. At the very least, to find out whether it's something you like. How would it be to try this at home alone? I'm not advocating to hide this from your wife :p just to try it on your own before with her, so you can sort out your thoughts vs hers. They might be different, and that's okay.
Please feel free to update! You are welcome here, and who you are is good enough.
Sending much warmth,
Elliot <3