Help me
tallOcean5317
May 27th
I I'm a gay female and I'm in love with my butifull best friend who is asexual and I don't know what to do so please help me
Voceamica
May 27th
@tallOcean5317 “I’m sorry, this must be a really difficult situation to go through. When you fall in love with your best friend, everything becomes very confusing, especially when you don’t know how the other person feels. Try not to blame yourself for what you’re feeling — there’s nothing wrong with it. But also try to protect your heart and slowly understand what truly makes you feel okay and safe, even if it’s not easy.”
Aayla
May 27th
@tallOcean5317 finding out you have romantic feelings for someone you thought was just a friend is tough, confusing and even scary, I get that! Take your time, don't panic, don't rush into things. Remember there's nothing wrong with how you feel, and remember that you're friends for a reason: she likes you, she sees the beauty in the person you are, she knows the good and bad parts of you and she wants to be by your side anyway. Whether or not she could also see you as a romantic partner (which is possible, by the way, being asexual doesn't mean you can't fall in love) is yet to be seen, but I'm sure that even if she doesn't feel the same, your friendship can survive if it's strong enough.
Make sure to let her know that it's ok for you to just be by her side and be there for her, even if she doesn't want to be in a romantic relationship with you. If you're also worried about the sexual aspect of things, I'd say that can be figured out with time, let's start by processing emotions first and sharing them once you're right. Everything else will come with time.
Best wishes to you!
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@Aayla thank you so much
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