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I am a female and identify as bisexual. I have a boyfriend of a year as of yesterday. Well before him I had a girlfriend of 5 years. I loved her so much, but our relationship was toxic so it ended. I've been getting some confusing thoughts whenever I get intimate with my boyfriend. I don't get into it like I do a girl. Whenever me and him get intimate, I always wish I was with a female instead. But I do love my boyfriend. I've been thinking about it alot and think I like guys romantically just not sexually. I feel Soo guilty for it. He doesn't know, and if he finds out it will totally kill him. I don't know what to do about it because I feel stuck.
@Wildbells319
why not just tell him the truth? Or try to work him into being with you and another woman? A woman that doesn’t mind having sex with another man? It gives you the chance to still be with him without losing him.
We have talked about it before and he got very upset. He's not one to be open to stuff like that. He's insecure so I could never.
@Wildbells319
well then YOU, Have a choice to make. You cannot control if he is insecure about stuff like that. You can think he’s a woman while you are intimate to get off. You can tell him just to go down on you more than intercourse. Or just cheat. At least it’s with another woman instead of a man. Those are your options or just break up with him and eventually you will get over it and he will to.
@highlyintuition1 ^^^