Uhm hi guys and gals and nonbinary pals??
lightFarm7802
March 24th
So ummm hi??? You can call me dum or microwaves or broken microwave idk. I’m new here!! Obviously lol. So I’m bi and I’m lowkey kinda confused about my gender identity, I think I’m a guy but I think I might be a femboy idk, I have far right Cristian parents and I feel like they will hate me when I eventually come out. I’m just scared
Bryghton
March 24th
@lightFarm7802
Hello, thank you for sharing with us. I hope it find you some relief to admit all that, even with buch of strangers.
It must have been confusing and can be exhausting to be always thinking and figuring things out. Adding to that the fear of not being accepted. I imagine that must be all be heavy to carry on your own.
But you will be okay here. You're figuring yourself out. You're trying to find an identity for yourself. And I say, take all the time you need. There's no need rush.
And I know coming out to your family is scary. Please know, you're not alone. You don't have to do it yet if you're scared and unsure. I don't know your family, so I wouldn't know how would they react.
Do you have any safe people in your life right now, maybe a friend or another relative, who you feel already understands you? Are there moments you can remember that they gave an opinion about LGBTQIA+?
As for figuring yourself out, take time to self-reflect for yourself. You don't have to do them all at once. Remember, answers can change as you also grow and learn, it's not something that has to be definitive.
Figure things out, learn something new until you can find a label that you think would fit you.
It’s okay to explore both how you feel on the inside and how you like to express yourself on the outside. They don’t always have to have the same label.
