Online crush/mixed messages
I've been chatting with my online crush for 4 months now, (she suffers from bipolar). 4 weeks ago she asked me to hang out with her after her semester. And then the following week, she tells me she wants to date composers (I have no musical talent). I then informed her that I would be dating other people-casually. And she asked me why I was talking to her if I have dates. Fast forward to a month later, I tell my crush I want to see her and she says that she doesn't want too. I told her she must have another crush that she likes so I understand. I unfollowed her on the GRAM and wont talk to her again. Im feeling really blue!
Hi @spicyricecake07
I would be feeling blue too; it's always sad when stuff like this doesn't pan out, especially when we really liked the person. She sounds like she was still deciding what she wanted and strung you along in the process. Would you really want to be with someone who is wishy washy with you like that? I know I'd rather be with someone who is direct with me, knew they wanted to be with me, and made clear, consistent efforts to be with me.
Don't be hard on yourself for being sad. It is sad, and take the time you need to move on from her. Love yourself, and another will come along soon enough.
