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User Profile: bestJet5874
bestJet5874 October 25th, 2025

I don’t know if I like girls and I need some advice because I think they are really pretty and it seems to weird for me to date a guy but it feel more natural having  a relationship with a girl but I have never had a crush on a girl before and that what makes me confused 

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User Profile: Aayla
Aayla October 25th, 2025
@bestJet5874 exploring your sexuality can definitely be confusing, mainly because we live in a heteronormative world where we all grow up with stereotyped ideas about what we should be and what a "normal" life looks like.
But there's no such thing as "normality", there's only what feels right to you.
Even if you've never dated or had a crush on a girl, your orientation is about what you feel, not about what you do. Straight people identify as such even before having any experience to "confirm" what they feel, so why shouldn't you?
If you are attracted to girls and you can see yourself dating one, and you don't feel this for guys, that's enough for you to determine what you identify as!
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User Profile: bestJet5874
bestJet5874 OP October 26th, 2025

@Aayla I have never thought about it like that thank you 

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User Profile: sunnyNickel2579
sunnyNickel2579 October 30th, 2025

@bestJet5874 dw you'll get through this


User Profile: StressedGirl
StressedGirl November 10th, 2025

@bestJet5874 what gender are you if ypu don't mind me asking just tryjng to figure out if you might be lesbian if AFAB incl female. Are you attracted tp guys at all sexually/romantically/both? Girld, romantically as well or just sexual. Sorry if it comes across creepy I'm just trying to figure it out and I'm really direct with my autism and it makes it hard to word things/say what's in my head/not sure so, might come across rude/disrespectful npt sure difference or creepy/weird.

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User Profile: bestJet5874
bestJet5874 OP November 12th, 2025

@StressedGirl I’m a girl trying to figure out if I’m lesbian 

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User Profile: StressedGirl
StressedGirl November 16th, 2025

@bestJet5874 ok

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User Profile: LunarTheTherian
LunarTheTherian November 12th, 2025

@bestJet5874

Well, actually, I used to have a problem with this as well! Having feeling for the same gender can be confusing, but if that's the way out wanna go, you do you! The only thing you need is love, no matter what you are, or who you love.

I hope you find yourself being who you are though, don't let anybody put you down because of it. It's your life, and you should only follow your own heart, not others beliefs.