lesbians I need HELP📢
lesbian dears✨ I have a slight problem,
so this lesbian friend of mine always seem to act awkward around me.
WHAT should I not do and work on so that she is comfortable around me.
feel free to share your views as your replies are very much valued💖
@RebelliouslyRoyal
You are not the one being awkward.
She needs to work on that.
All you can do is be you, be friendly, be accepting and give her time to be more comfortable, putting in the work on her end 💚
@RebelliouslyRoyal
You thinking she likes you?
Just be nice and honest. Maybe address her behavior with her. Make sure that it is not around people when you address it.
@Remina
we dont actually talk that much but the thing is whenever all the friends are together I catch her staring at me from a distance and when I look her way she immediately breaks eye contact with me and will start talking to someone else.
@RebelliouslyRoyal
Hmm, I would speculate that she finds you cute and she gets shy when she is caught staring. Does it bother you that she is like this with you?
@RebelliouslyRoyal
hi 🥰
i am not an expert but these are some common things i have read in many books.
@RebelliouslyRoyal
Most of the time, it’s societal pressure. Give her a safe space to talk about it.🥰
@curiousbookishness
can you offend someone without realizing?
@RebelliouslyRoyal
Yes
@RebelliouslyRoyal
HI dear🥰
Most of the time, yes. You may have good intentions when starting a conversation about a certain topic, but your words can still be taken as rude—even though, in your heart, that’s not what you really wanted to say.
so yeah you have to tread carefully!