Am I Bisexual?
iwishtobenormal
May 12th, 2025
I think I'm bisexual. I feel like my attraction could be put on a scale. In one moment I feel more attracted to girls and the next I feel more attracted to guys. Most of the time its girls tho. I kinda feel like I can't really know for sure if I'm bisexual since I've never been in a relationship before.
Aayla
May 12th, 2025
@iwishtobenormal your orientation is about your feelings and attraction, not your experiences, so you can definitely identify as bi if you can feel attraction for boys and girls! Of course you're free to check by experimenting if you feel the need to, but it's not a mandatory step to "confirm" your sexuality. After all, if straight people identify as straight way before having the first experience based on their feelings alone, why can't we?
Also, remember that being being doesn't necessarily mean "50-50" and you can lean more towards a certain gender and still be bi. Based on what you say, it definitely sounds like you're bisexual, but it's up to you to define who are!
crispMango3093
May 30th, 2025
@iwishtobenormal
Same situation. That's why I'm not interested in dating anyone. I thought I'd be open to dating a bi.
