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Am I bisexual?

User Profile: raspberryPapaya2886
raspberryPapaya2886 December 6th, 2025

Hi, I am a female year old teenage girl. Recently (for about a month or two) i've been thinking that I might be bi, because I have a celbrity crush but its a girl. Since i like her so much i've been fokosed on girls in school (that never happend before) and I swear I felt butterflies when a girl looked at me the other day. Its just so random, because I've never been interested in girls, only boys. But I think that I still like boys. I am going crazy please me help hahahah. And also, I am not "afraid" of being bi i just think that coming out would be so hard. I fear my female friends would feel like i have a crush on them or something, even when I dont

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User Profile: Aayla
Aayla December 6th, 2025
@raspberryPapaya2886 I get how confusing this can be, I've been through that as well! Navigating sexual awakeness can be tough. It's not necessarily about being scared to be bi, it's just that we grow up in a heteronormative world, and anything other than what is "expected" from us can feel strange and disorienting.

All I can say is, don't hesitate to explore what you feel. Imagine yourself in different scenarios, fantasize, reflect on how these fantasies make you feel, both physically and emotionally. Sometimes it's just about getting more familiar with parts of ourselves we haven't explored yet. Also, if you don't feel like exploring things with a girl now, don't worry! Experimenting can be useful for some, but you don't have to push things if you don't feel ready or if you're not into one specific girl. Your feelings are enough to determine who you are, even if you don't act on them (yet)!

As for your friends, if they truly value and appreciate the person you are, you won't lose them because of this. They'll understand that your relationship with them won't change no matter what.
Best of luck on your journey!
User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 6th, 2025

@raspberryPapaya2886

You are not crazy.

It's natural to be attracted to both girls and boys at different stages in our life.

You are young.

Exploring.

And never any pressure to rush or pressure yourself.

Trust your instincts 🥰

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