First post
Hello, i'm still learning about the LGBTQIA+ community and could use some help:
Ever since I was Little, I've been disgusted by sex scenes in movies or TV shows, but only if they had real people in them. I have no problem of the characters are cartoons/animated, be they men, women, nonbinary, trans etc. Furthermore, the I do fantasize about being in intimate situation a, but the idea of someone being into me terrifies me. I honestly don't know what to think at this point. Any insight and advice Is greatly appreciated.
@AbyssLurker
Hey, it sounds like you are probably on the asexual
spectrum, and possibly under the grey ace umbrella. "Grey ace" just means that you
are ace (asexual) in a way that has nuance and isn't explicitly in the binary of "yes I
like sex" or "no I don't like sex."
This site explains some more niche, specific ace labels; maybe something like lithosexual or aegosexual would apply to you?
https://www.aforace.com/the-basics/asexual-microlabels-a-quick-guide