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User Profile: dynamicOwl2749
dynamicOwl2749 August 3rd, 2025

How do you know if you’re not a Cis person? I’m not sure I’m a girl, but I don’t think I’m a boy but I don’t know if I’m nonbinary. How do I know if I actually feel these feelings or if I’m looking for something else and am just not happy with life?

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User Profile: WellsFiction
WellsFiction August 4th, 2025

@dynamicOwl2749 Hey there. Figuring out who you are can be very difficult. My advice is follow your heart. Don't be afraid to try stuff out and seeing how things go. You deserve happiness, joy and love. 

User Profile: snowfall88
snowfall88 August 4th, 2025

@dynamicOwl2749 Hi! There are so many different ways to feel about gender. I would research the different variations, like you may identify with genderfluidity if your feelings about it change often more than picking a fixed gender option. Either way, take it day by day, and it's okay to not know exactly how you feel yet. Thank you for sharing and you got this, just keep being yourself! 😄💗

User Profile: IsaSilver
IsaSilver August 7th, 2025

I think the most important thing is for you to be you, instead of you as a representation of the label.

If you are not happy with life, change something and see if it helps or not. Sometimes, you won't know until you try something. Keep and open mind and see where it leads you, and be try to be self aware so that you find the answers that matters to you. Once you find that happy place, your label will come naturally to you, so don't try to do it the other way round!

User Profile: IsaSilver
IsaSilver August 7th, 2025

I think the most important thing is for you to be you, instead of you as a representation of the label.

If you are not happy with life, change something and see if it helps or not. Sometimes, you won't know until you try something. Keep and open mind and see where it leads you, and be try to be self aware so that you find the answers that matters to you. Once you find that happy place, your label will come naturally to you, so don't try to do it the other way round!

User Profile: ClosetedTransQueen
ClosetedTransQueen August 8th, 2025

@dynamicOwl2749 my advice is…(drum roll initiated)… Research, Research, Research. When I realized I was trans, I had been researching and thinking for months and thinking about it until early morning. Just reminder that someone will always be there to talk if you need to.

AHHHH  I forgot to turn off the drum roll! (Drum roll ended) 

That’s better…


-Jade