Just came out to my wife… as a trans woman
I just came out to my wife of 5 years. She seems scared. She told me she can’t think of me as a woman. She feels like I dropped a bomb on our marriage. This is true. She just kept says I just don’t want things to change.
I don’t know what to think. I just want to hide again. I want a time machine. Where’s the tardis when you need it.
Update. She just needed time. We are now doing great. She and her sisters said they would burn down our family rather than let me be ostracized. I am incredibly lucky to be so loved.
@Figuringitout1991
Yay! I'm so happy to hear your loved ones were understanding and accepting towards you. ❤ I hope the rest of the family comes along too, in their due time ofcourse. Know that you're valid and have all the right to be *you*.
Thanks it feels good to tell certain people. Obviously I am only telling those I know will be supportive. The only unknown was my partner and she is doing just going slow. Its the big unknown people who I worry about.