Questions

Question for all of us in here. I’m black and 31 years old. My fiance is saying our disconnect is that I’m not whimsical and that she feels as though it’s a kid in me wanting to be free and be my self. Being whimsical is weird to me in my opinion and there are things that make me feel young again like video games, anime, the aquarium and the zoo, etc. I feel as though I’m masculine but a little toxic because the stuff I’ve been through already with her is making her think like she’s in a marriage with a kid so i have to be fully masculine and not be as soft.

2. Are yall in a marriage where yall have to ask for, idk what words i can use in here, but sexual intercourse or what is men love what women does to us down below? Like i feel as though if my woman loves me, she will just do it and initiate it and i don’t feel loved or wanted because she’s not doing it and she doesn’t really care because she says that the Bible says that the lord gives the woman to us in a way. I might be saying it wrong because idk a lot of Bible like that but i love everything about the Bible but im concerned when it comes to sex and intimacy and the initiation of it. Her being naked isn’t enough. It’s cool but that doesn’t turn me on and she doesn’t like physical touch but i love it. And i pay 99.99% of the bills in the house including hers because she won’t have a job for the next two weeks. I know most women that the men is doing everything except cooking should be on their man sexually 1000%. I want to feel like a king.

I’m also coming from prn addiction. I’m 58 days clean and counting 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾