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SELF-ACCOUNTABILITY; holding yourself accountable

User Profile: chyni
chyni November 5th, 2023

Happy Sunday teamates! 💜

hope everyone is doing great! 😊 for those concerned, I'm doing so much better than the last time I posted here. 

today I wish to talk about self-accountability, but firstly what's that? what exactly does it means? self-accountability simply means that you're taking responsibility for your actions and behaviours without pointing fingers on others. it means you're fulfilling your obligations, tasks, and goals without excuses, and, if an unexpected challenge arises, being accountable means you can focus on a solution without blaming others. 

so, my question to you all is, how do you hold yourself accountable when you're unable to fulfil your obligations/goals? 

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 5th, 2023

@chyni I have no idea how to answer this question😕sorry! But I'm so glad your feeling better. And welcome back ❤❤ hugggs you tightly ❤

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User Profile: chyni
chyni OP November 5th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11

that's okay, you can take as long as you please to think about it. I'm glad that I'm back and better as well, and thanks for the well wishes, I appreciate you 😊🫂

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User Profile: Knonob
Knonob November 5th, 2023

Welcome back Chyni. Glad to hear you're doing better.


Concerning self-accountability, I've been trying for the past 3 months and I'm not getting anywhere. I really don't know what I'm doing wrong and it gets Soo frustrating at times 😅

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User Profile: chyni
chyni OP November 6th, 2023

@Knonob

sometimes, all you need is just someone to help and guide you into the right direction, my pm is open if you wish to seek help. 

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User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 November 6th, 2023
@chyni
This is such an awesome and needed topic! Thanks for bringing it up!
I first and foremost am honest with with myself about what my strengths and weaknesses are. I try not to get too ahead of myself because I tend to take on too much at once so whenever I fall short it's a reminder that I need to set realistic expectations for what I can do and to own what I do. The biggest thing is to acknowledge and accept when you make mistakes, instead of denying or deflecting responsibility. People generally are very understanding when you're not only honest with yourself but genuine with others. Every mistake is a lesson learned and there is nothing to be ashamed of. Being accountable for yourself is a massive strength and show of character.
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User Profile: chyni
chyni OP November 10th, 2023

@Heather225

hey heather, thanks for sharing, i love your pov & i totally agree with you. honesty is very important when it comes on to holding yourself accountable. 

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User Profile: HealingTalk
HealingTalk November 7th, 2023

@chyni


Hi Chyni!

Great topic!

I focus more on the time I spend on the necessary tasks, the parts of a project, than on achieving the final goal.

It makes me less anxious and more productive.

I time myself with apps like Toggl Track and Brain Focus. Or just on writing.

I review how much time I spent on the assigned tasks compared to the target time.

Particularly when I am doing a project important to me.

If I fall short of the target time spent, I try to find the cause, some pattern, time-wasting activities, etc.

And then try to make corrections.

I take the review as a way to better plan from now on into the future. Not for self-blaming.

The past is gone, nothing can change it, so no use in regrets or self-blame.

In the short term, I reward myself with doing things I enjoy after completing some scheduled time of work. Say, 3 hours of focused work, then play a puzzle game.

If I don't fulfill those 3 hours, there is no reward.

That might be a way of short-term self-accountability.

In general, my approach is breaking down large tasks into smaller ones, assigning time I must spend on each one, and reviewing my use of time. Learning from that analysis, and making corrections in order to better move forward.


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User Profile: chyni
chyni OP November 10th, 2023

@HealingTalk

i absolutely love this. the way you go about your tasks are very fascinating.. and i think i need to take a page from your book in order for me to focus more 🫶🏽 thanks for sharing, i appreciate this 

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User Profile: HealingTalk
HealingTalk November 10th, 2023

@chyni


You are welcome!

I am glad that you have found something useful in my post!


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