I need help as (aromantic person)

@mimilynz

That is hard to explain as i feel it is different for many .... years of poets writers and songwriters had tried to explain .... 

i think it not only is different for each person........ i have had two great loves in my life and they both were different..... too many think it is a resume type thing ........or we are compatible thing ..... and have x amount of time together ..... but what ever the feeling is for you.... it needs to be there...  far too many also try to say "yeah i feel like that too"  ...maybe even pretend ......to feel included but feel empty.... i found the way i experienced love the best was when i felt great about myself first .... when the person i love cares more about making me feel great about me then how i feel about them ..... 

each day / year i live i learn more about all sorts of love......   until you see or feel no one can tell you how you will feel. 

It’s different for every person, only you can decide this. And don’t worry if you’re not sure in the moment, because hindsight can be very revealing also.