Konjam Pesalama? 😊💞
@Ailuraphilelove8tears9 to @enthusiasticHouse3272, @bistoni, @curiousSloth
All Tamil people are welcome to this penpal chat thread 💌✨
Hi my sweeties 👋
Sorryyy… lately I’ve been struggling a bit with heavy thoughts, so penpal thread create panna late aagiduchu 😅
So ippo ella Tamil people-kum open-aa indha thread create panniruken.
Feel free to tag other Tamil people too 😊
GUY'S ESPECIALLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Inga oru rule illa 🌱 Reply panna hesitate panna vendam, udane reply pannanum nu pressure-um illa, time eduthukkonga 😊
Jolly-aa irundhaal adha share pannunga, kastam irundhaal adhayum sollunga, illa na sinna happy moments , fav food sapten, iniku productive-aa irundhen, movie paathen…
whatever it is — just share 💬✨
House! Edhaavudhu puriyala na, in feel free to ask me, okay? 😊
Seri… sollunga —
ellaarum epdi irukkinga?
Na recent-aa konjam struggle pannitu dhaan iruken… but I’m trying to move myself and start things all over again 🤍
Next year vara pogudhu…
enna plans? goals edhaavudhu set pannirukkingla?
Personally, na konjam productive aagi, studies-la focus panna try pannalam nu nenachen. 🤧
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9 @enthuastichouse3272
@bistoni
Heyyyyy I am very happy to talk with you guys
And I am doing okay ☺️
How about you bistoni
I am glad that now you are ok ailura 💖 💪🏻
Nanum next year veriya weight loss pannalaamnu iruken and productiva irukanumnu nenachi irukena and endha velaiyaiyum thalli podama irukanum nerathuku seiyanum aparum Arabic language kathukanum ....
Unglukku ennanu sollunga guys kepoom ☺️
Adutha varusham vitatha pudikirum ❤️🔥
@CuriousSloth Wow.,.. that's a great goals 😊👏 yes, we are happy to talk u too 😊 Thank you for your concern words 😊
yes, well said... naanum productivity maintain pannanumnu ninaikiren 🤧
Yeah.... we rise up towards next year.. yayyy 😊
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
Thank you 😊 oh that's glad to hear
Yeah buddy let's rise 💪🏻 together this is our year ❤️🔥
What do you think hmmm?
@curiousSloth
Hey vanakkam curious...whats going on!!?
And will make this year struggled out by happiness and achievements.
Hey bistoni
Hey bistoni
@Ailuraphilelove8tears9, @bistoni, @curiousSloth
Helloo!!! first of all, Ailurophile - it's great that u created this penpal thread n im looking forward to connecting with u guys.
and you said u werent feeling alright recently, is everything ok now? sending u lots of love n positivity as we r moving to a new year! hope u get over all those things that r draining u🤍
and how are the otherss???👀 hope y'all doing fine too.
and about me... nothing much is up, just hanging in there. ah i watched home alone with my sisters today, cus yk its christmas eve after all (even tho our family doesnt celebrate christmas) i love those vibes that christmas brings🎄🎅
what have u guys been up to, lately?
XOXO
@enthusiasticHouse3272 😇
Hi house!!!! 😊💞 hope u doing good, dear💗
Aww 🤗💐 it's my pleasure to connect with y'all 😊 💞✨
Yeah!!! recently so many negative thoughts, heavy emotions, can't process what's going around me 🙃, going through a heavy phase, dear 😕 i hope I'll soon get over this and feel at ease 😊 💞✨
Thank you for your lovely concern,🤗💝 i appreciate it a lot, dear 😇💖
And also thank you for your wishes for us.. it mean's a lot more than you could ever think 💐i hope the same for u 😊!!!! 💗
Aww 😍 that's so cute 😊 having quality time with sibling 🤗💞 and Wow!!! i love "home alone" i just finished very 1 season 🤧😣 i liked it so many... got to watch next to i guess 😊💞
Yeah... even my family wont celebrate Christmas as well 😂 just a while i realised it's Christmas today 😭🤧
As i told you back then, I'm still watching "stranger things" s3 started 😊
Hugssss 😊💞
Sweet home's*
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
I’m very happy to hear from you!🤗 I truly wish you the very best and hope that all those negative thoughts swirling in your mind fade away soon. You are too kind to be tortured by negativity. I'm sending you a lot of hugs and positive thoughts, dear.🤍💫
And yes, Merry Christmas!🎄 I also hope that watching Stranger Things takes your mind to a world free of negativity. 📺✨
Lots of love! ❤️🥰
@enthusiaticHouse3272 😇
Hello dear 🤗
How u doing? 💞
Sry, it's way late now but still "HAPPY NEW YEAR 🎊" 😇
Thank you so much for your kind and lovely words, it's mean's a lot for me 😊 i really have to hear this now... 💖 i received all ur sacred Hugs 🤗💜 ur warmth flowing overall my soul 💗 thank you so much, Sweetie 💞✨
Then.. I'm really unsettled to call u with ur username 🙃 !!! tell what can call u, sweetie 😊💕✨
I'm watching "Stranger things" s4 e5 now 😊, what abt u? u completed "sweet home's"?
Love you ❤️✨
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
Hii :)) im doing ok. just a bit stressed about my studies n stuff. but i hope i'll figure things out.
Happy New Year to you too!! may this year bring u joy n strength🫂✨
You can call me Nethu, thats what a lot of ppl call me or u can call me anything u like. im fine with it☺️
And seems like ✨progress✨ in watching Stranger Things, lol.
Sending hugs, againn🫂🤗 (if u dont mind😂)
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
Ennke notification varave illa sorry guysss😭
Btw ellarum eppdii irukinga...aprom Kristha mass ku enna pannala nu irukinga...
~marakkama ennke oru gift anupidunga:)
Nandri vannakam🙏.
@bistoni 🤗🤗🤗💞💞💞
Heyyy sweetie !!😊 💕
No, no.. no issues, dear !! 😊💞 no sry, that's totally fine 😊
Kristha mass?????🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ennaku iniku dhan like a while before dhan theriyum it's "krisha mass nu" 😂😂 enga vitta christmas celebrate panna maataga 🤧
Gift-ta??? mmmm🤔🤔🤔🤔
Hey, i forgot ! I've already send u some gifts to your house?? u should have been received it now? haven't u ?😂😂
I packed millions of hugs, countless love, unbearable cheers for u, healing portions💐💞💝
Ungaluku siblings irukaga-la??
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
Danks uh friend...:>
Yes I have a elder bro wbu?
@bistoni
I do have Elder brother 🤗... but he left home for his studies way back, like around 7 year's:( 😕
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
Thats so sad...is he studying in abroad?
@bistoni
Bistoniiiii....!!!! where have u gone all these day's 😭😭
i reallyyyy missed you. 😭
How are u doing???
Like yes, but not aboard, he was in other state for study purpose...!!
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
Heyy there im doing good:)...yk I met a guy and i felt hes good tho so i was kinda busy with my life finallyy and i think it happen because of your quotes!! Anyways how are you doing....i really missed yall :(
@ailurapuram
@curios ana penn
@enthu illa
Sorry bha ennke tag panna full name theriyal !!
@bistoni
Hey my sweetheart 😘
I'm sorry dear, I missed you reply 🤧
Aww...!🤗 I'm so happy to know ur doing good 💗
And hey- Guyyyyyy??????🤧 I'm so happy for u, like no one did... to the extreme Sweeties ✨ I'm so glad, he keep u busy with him 😍💝.
I'm so glad i made u feel better love, yk how much beautiful n lovely it is to hear from u, u just made my day beauty 💞
Thank you for that 💐💗
Tight HUGS ur way. 🤗
@bistoni
I am happy for you dear ð¥°
@bistoni, @enthusiasticHouse3272, @curiousSloth
Hey Sweetie's 🤗💞
First os all... I'm sorry, that' I'm not being available. recently I'm facing quite a lot, it's even hard for me to even breath, so many heavy emotions. that's why i couldn't be replying you guy's 😔
Once after i feel grounded I'll definitely reach out to u Sweetie's 🤗 ✨ I'll be around here, anyways! reading you're response 😊💞
Please... feel free to chat with eachother even when I'm not here-dear's!!😊💞
I hope you guys chat with eachother and make this penpal colour full 😊💞 which can help me heal better 💝😇
Bistoni neega house kita... house neega bistoni kita, then curious kita... Guy's talk to each other 💐🤗
i hope my Sweetie's doing great for this Christmas 🎄
Marry christmas, Sweetie's 🎄🎁
Sending lots of love and blessings ur way 💐😇
Shower of hugs*🤗
And Sweetie's Pls before msg pere tag panne marendhuradhiga 💞😊 notification varadhu 😊🌸
@bistoni , @enthusiasticHouse3272 @curiousSloth
Okay Sweetie's 🤗 let's play something 😊💞
Icebreaker maadhri, okay!
Share me 3 good or something u grateful for and 1 bad stuff that shattered u this month's!!!!
😊💞
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
Good things
●went for a farm trip
●im gratefull for being here as a part of 7 cups
Bad things
● im very disappointed to having idli dosa and lemon rice as a breakfast.
Share your good and bad too.
~have a good day
@bistoni
Heyy! The farm trip sounds fun! How was it?🐮👀
@enthusiasticHouse3272
It was a good experience...kinda relaxing and amazing..btw long time no see....how are you
@bistoni
Nicee :)
Im ok. How are u doing?
@enthusiasticHouse3272
Kinda okay...
@bistoni Just okay 🙁??? what happened? is tagt something bothering you my sweetie?
i want u to be more and more happier 💕 u deserve lot of happiness and joy 😊!!
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
Now im good....:)))
Literally missed you...how are you doing tho?
@bistoni 😊
I'm glad u doing good 😊💞
Aww 😊 i missed u guy's too...... 🤧🤧
tbh......Just dunno, I'm struggling with heavy emotion storm, chaos, try to rewire my thoughts, still processing.... will be alright soon 🤗✨
Thank you for asking 🤗
How abt u? anything interesting happened recently?😊
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
Yeahhh.....you texted me thats intresting..lol
Aww 😊🤧✨
@bistoni
Farm trip ??😃 I've no idea......😭🤧 can u tell more abt it?🤧
Hey, same here pa 😇 nanum idha communitye romba cherish pannren 🤗💕 i felt the same way u do 🦋💞 love it 🌸
Idli, dosa, lemon rice 😭😭😭
For breakfast???????😭 u deserve better!! 🤧
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
**Good Things:**
- Learned a lot about myself—what i really am and what i truly enjoy
- Joined 7Cups—i met wonderful friends like u all❤️
- Tried to stay calm, even tho it was hard (im not sure if that counts as a good thing)
**Bad Things:**
- I've been feeling very anxious lately and i've been falling behind in my studies
How about you?
@enthusiasticHouse3272
Hey! wow 🤧 that's really beautiful !!! yeah..... of course it counts, dear 😊💞 and i relate most of u from this 🤗✨
Yeah, i know how it feels.... that's totally understandable. i hear u completely, i mean it.💗
I've been there and still going through!! yeah........ I'm also drowning 😔 anxiety killing slowly, struggling to fight back. sometime's i completely lost myself in this, no words to describe how we feel 🙃 i can totally get u in this dear...
Yeah, studies ☹️!!!!!!! that's being my biggest head ache rn 😞.... no idea 😐 I'm totally clueless. in one word, I'm just dying in quite way.
the guilt just eating me up away 🙁
Hope things will soon ease up for us 💐🦋
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
Yeah same with me. I can really really understand the pain you are going through.
And yes.. i hope the same! May things get better for us, ALL OF US!!🫂🙏
And religious gatherings? Im really happy to here it made u feel grounded☺️
Im also into spirituality. It can really calm your thoughts and soul, that's what i believe. Whatever the religion is, as long as it teaches good, it can be really soothing and calming.🤍
@enthusiasticHouse3272
Yeah, idk... when will get to end, fir me it seems like eternal pain🙃🤧
Hope all we have after all 😅 aren't we? sometime's we just let it be like : ahh 😮💨 let's see !! 😅
Yeah, I love to be spiritually engaged as ground me in gentle way 🤗💐 Sometimes i spend my whole night on prayer mate 💞 without even realising its break of dawn 🦋✨
U completed "Sweet home's" dear?
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
Yeah, I agree.
It's really nice to hear about spirituality from you.✨🤍
Also, what do u mean by sweet homes?🤔
If it's Home Alone (since i said i watched it with my sisters)
Yeah.. I finished that movie☺️
@enthusiasticHouse3272
Hey, sryyyyy 🤧🤧
I was chatting with someone and confused it with u 😭 pls Never mind 🙏
Did u finished all parts of that movie?
Hey, u can watching "cat's and dog's" just give a try if u like to.... it's kinda funny and lively one. 😊💝
How r u been today, sweetie? 😊
@enthusiasticHouse3272 @bistoni @curiousSloth
Okay, lemme share now 😊💞
3 goods:
Religious gatherings:) I'm way into sprituality 😊 💞 recently i attended some religious gatherings, it helps me grounded in many ways 💞
7 cups (≧▽≦) !! like there is no way to explain my feeling over this community, it healed me the way i never expected it to be, i honestly i get to process many beautiful things here 😊💞
the people's i met here ;) it's way beyond the level to express this, so, I'm a loner..... I've no friends in person. i suffered a lot by loneliness, reached the depth of despair 😔 but...... now it's totally different, I've got plenty of friends, supporters, lovely, genuine people's who care for me, love me, cherish me 💕💐
I'm so grateful for this things 😁💜🦋
So, the bad !!!
I've been caught up into someone which i hate the most, which made feel disgusting, lack self-esteem, fed self blaming. i wish i never did i that mistake, now i carry a deep regrets and unhealing wounds forever 😔
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
You forgot about me :( and yeah btw just add me up as you're friend or a wellwisher..and i dont trust in God or any supernatural things..but that made you feel better so im thankfull for it...and ignore all you have been into it maybe so hard but just remember once you crossed the *** you will find the heaven and yeah I'll be here for you♡.
@bistoni 🦋
Aww 😊 how will i even forgot u?? (*˘︶˘*).｡*♡ U already are my friend, sweetie 😊💕 thank you so much for your lovely words 💖 you just made my day 💖
Yeah, like i hope things will get better eventually - the path is heavy but the destiny will surely be worth it, ik 🤧✨
Have u watched many movies lately??
@bistoni @enthusiasticHouse3272
So, guy's i started ice breakers, so u may also ask questions 😁 let's play...... lets keep it fun, more chaotic 😉
And guy's lemme ask u something, can i tag u in mu game threads? we can play there also? its way more fun tbh 😊🤗💞
Lemme know 😊💞
@curiousSloth
sry, forgot 2 tag u 😊
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
It's ok ☺️
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
Suree!!!
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
Im in!!😃
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
Hey guys na ungala tag panna poren en na ailura ungala tag panna sonnanga
@curiousSloth
Love u, sloth 💝🤗
Seri, Stranger things yenna aachi? Alshi mudichitaala s5 ye??😭🤧
Next enna pakalamnu sollupa?? 😃
Then namma next "fire and ash" pakalamnu ninaikiren, aana its just a movie so......😑 yedhadhu series kanddu pidikanum 🤧
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
Love you too ailura
Illa illa ava inum pakala namma senthu pakalamm
Next i think "Alice in the borderland or sweet home "
Pakalaam pa
Ama fire and ash pakalaam ama series than kandu pudikanum
Yaravadhu engaluku suggestions kudunga guys
@curiousSloth
Alice in borderland worth uhhh!!
Btw I can suggest you some movies and series
Like series...my name(a revenge story),all of us are dead(joooooombie story),Vincenzo cassano(good story), the great flood( a kind of emotional series) and parasite
Like movies....Enola holmes 1 and 2(a detective story),the little rascal(comedy),stephen(a tamil movie),seven(crime thriller),midnight(one of the best korean movie) and grudge(if you like horror).
I can give you yall more suggestion if you wanted:)
@bistoni @curiousSloth
Hey naga rendu perum idhule 90 % movies panthutom pa 😭🤧
engaluku.... Psycho 😅 like crime thriller, horror movies, especially fantasy movie's rombaa pidikum... then sloth-thuku zombie apocalypse movies paithiyam ava 😂😂 so, neega kongam idhule irudhu yedhadhu suggest pandrigala 😃??
Especially we don't really get along with k-drama and movie's 🙃 so.... adhule yedum vedaam 😊💝
Neega enna recent-ah movie pathiga?
@curiousSloth
na iniki fulla "stranger things" pakanum pakanum ne time poiduchu.
Avaluku exam pogudha ipo? epo mudiyum?
Namma dhan inno indhan series - eh.. mudikala 🤧 lets see pa.
Aprom enna achi Madrasa? iniku yen pogela? na sonna peche kekamatigure 🙃 ??
Then we have to take look up into "Arab" 😭 ni mattum progress kattura 🤧 ne enna pa?? madharasa po-re 😭😭
Na naalila عمل start pannanum di, neeyum start pannu.... first سنة seri seyanum pa 🤧
Let's create a specific عوراد for us... ☺️
@curiousSloth @bistoni @enthusiasticHouse3272
Hey guy's, sloth ungala yelam tag pannitaga.... so, it'll genuine make me happy if u guys be able to engaged in my game thread 😊🦋
Seri, why do our chat's are sleeping, Sweetie's 🤣🤣
i started ice breakers, ask some random questions, or maybe some Chaotic one 😅 whatever it is.... not forcing dears 💝 just letting you guys how we can make more convo and get to know eachother well 😊💗
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9 @bistoni @enthusiasticHouse3272
I would glad to get along with you guys 😀 ☺️
@curiousSloth
Yeah me too 😃
@enthusiasticHouse3272
Oh enaku romba santhosham ☺️
Aparum epdi irukeenga
@bistoni
Neenga epdi irukeenga
@curiousSloth
Fine neenga Curious ?
@curiousSloth
Im also kinda ok. What about u?
@bistoni @enthusiasticHouse3272 @curiousSloth
Lemme ask u guy's Questions to make the caht alive 😊 isn't it kinda boring...... 😣
So, Share a one thing u learnt from last year ?
Share a abt one special person who made u feel lighter last year? or a sweet soul who crossed ur way and made you feel seen 😇 💞 what difference they made in you 🤗💐?
So, I'll go first:
Last year taught me so much, one of that was abt taking steps toward our goals, as we all going through our own phases, we never understand someone path as we never walked their path with their shoe's. so, everyone perspectives certainly differ from eachothers... I'm not criticizing or judging anyone struggles with me 💝✨
As for me, i wasted my lot of time worring about wasting time, and blame my past and trauma, hide behind my mental illness. i learnt that these are not going to feed my soul anyways. no matter what i should have to take one step at a time, i don't have to rush but can move forward slowly even tho it seems impossible rn. 💞✨
So, i lost my best friend 💔 which drowns me for year's, but that person never acknowledged my feelings and love towards them, they displease of me 😔 and it totally frustrated and exhausted in the process of make them see my emotional weight and worth- but then i realised I'm wasting time on someone who never acknowledged my worth, love, emotion or the person im. Eventually i realised there is someone who were admiring from behind for the person I'm..... they acknowledge every single tiny thing's about me 🤗 they made me feel lighter when i talk to them, i can be myself with them, i feel easy to talk to them 💐 they never failed to count on me 😊💞
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
I'm so sorry about your friend, dear.
But it's great to hear that you found someone who can make you feel lighter. 🤍💫
Well, about me:
Life was hard in 2025. My mental health got worse. But I learned a lot too.
Overall i would say that 2025 taught me survival, self-awareness and also self-respect (im still struggling with that tho)
I didnt have any special person who could make me feel lighter, btw :,)
@enthusiasticHouse3272
Oh I am so sorry to hear it buddy but yet you survived that says you are strong 💪🏻 i hope this year treats you kindly and brings endless smiles on your way and hope this year will bring new opportunities, positivity for you 🤗
You can tell us anything if you are comfortable and we will listen to you 😊
@curiousSloth
Aww thank you so much for your kind words. they mean so much to me🥹🫂
Im also hoping something good for this year🤞💛
Lots of love❤️✨
@enthusiasticHouse3272
Hey - nethu..!!🤗
I'm sry for the late response, i haven't checked it out lately:(
Yeah, sometimes we don't notice what we blessed with, we degrade tbh... yes, it's something hard to be agree with, but I'm here with experience, reality it's hard r8?
I failed to notice what's already I'm BLESSED with, but you know r8? we often seek for the stuffs what we lacking with 🙃...!!
Time and Stuggles taught me so much, even it was painful, remains a deep scar... it's does mold me as what i am now, the better version of oneself.
It requires sacrifice that would drown u deeper to the deepest. but guess what...! in the end it's better for us, it's just bitter to tolerate this fact. but it come up with meaningful truth 💝
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I'm sorry dear you going through a lot rn, i see u... I've been in ur shoes before and still coping with:(
You resonate most of me here, 2025 was my worst year ever i would say, lot of pains, tears, sacrifices, guilt's, regret, poisened by oneself in term of self - blaming, the awkwardness like a lot goes on n on.... 😔
And Yeah, That's a shot... I'm so glad u got ur lesson's, that's what going to define u what ur in the future...
I learnt that our mistakes r okay to make... no matter how constant ur in. but every single time we fall, we never should failed to learn from our mistakes, oneday at a time... you'll see how far u came, without even realising you become so strongest, and when u turn back n see youself the way u mend with stuffs, i swear that feel's heaven, Sweetie 💞
It may seem impossible now, but one day at a time you'll get through what all u going rn. ✨ you deserve more than u what u think, nethu...
I'm sorry you have anyone be by ur side, sounds intense... you know what? I've been in ur shoes and yeah, still dy ing alone tbh. i see u, i hear you... i hear ur pain, i know how intense it might be. 🍀
You deserve to be loved...
You're deserve to be seen...
You're deserve to be heard...
you're deserve to be embraced...
You're deserve to kindness and compassion...
You deserve to be healed the way u want the healing to be...
So, here... listen!!!...nethu..!! you're not alone, you'll never be, not now, not here... I'm here for u no matter what...!💝 i genuinely love and care for u. i may not be available sometimes but yeah.. nethu, i mean it... I'm here, u can always count on me. 🤗💐
I can be ur someone... that who care for ur well- being...
I can be the some who listens to ur inner-self..
I can be someone who see you'r depth of ur despair,
Sadness,
Pain,
Suffering,
Regrets,
guilt,
Silence that screeching for peace...
Stuggles. more and more...
I can be someone who can listen your stammering soul and heart.
Yeah, dear... I'm not exaggerating or something, i mean it word by word. I'll be ur solace... Every word i mentioned was came with full of my soul. 🍀💝
You're loved and acknowledge by some random heart like me. 🤗✨
Sending u my pure drops of love and compassion your way. 💐🍀
Shower u with mu warm Hugs. 🤗 💜
And nethu... if u want, we can make a personal penpal for us too... and u may able to share more comfortablely.
JUST ASKING.... i won't mind anything if u don't want to, you can simply ignore it... please don't hesitate at all 🍀💞
I'm just here for u out of concern...🤗💐
Love u ma..!✨
@Ailurapgilelove8tear9
First I am glad that you learned many things by your own and you know you are a strong person 💪🏻 and it may be impossible but soon you will make it possible 💖 and it may be slow but great days are coming inshallah 💖✨
I am so sorry that you lost your bestfriend and and I am glad that you got one . And I wish this year will be more pleasent and good to you.🥰 hope you have a great day
Sorry that is @Ailuraphilelove8tear9
@curiousSloth
Aww..!! 😍 when did u even learn to be this expressive my girllieee 🤗
Btw, that so heartfull to hear from u 💝✨ thank you so much for that. 😍💜
And u know what & who im talking abt and yeah, that happened way back r8? i wasn't even aching rn :) I'm just here with what im grateful for... 🤗💝
Yeah, hope the same for you sweetie 😘, i told u r8? you got this and you'll make it, just by small step orjust crawl and one day at a time, we both got this together. 😁🤗✨
Inshallah, let's see... what's Allah willing for us 😊🍀
HUGS 🤗 💞
And hey- share with us too..
U skipped questions 😂😜
looking forward for ur sharing 🤗💐✨