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User Profile: selfconfidentTortoise1212
selfconfidentTortoise1212 August 9th, 2021

Hi, I’m 16 and I have been to hell and back. I’ve been struggling for a long time and things have gotten so so much worse. I am not diagnosed with anything and I’m in no way trying to self diagnose myself and I’m sorry if this is the wrong place but I just need to talk to someone I know will understand because no one else does. I’ve suspected I have bpd for over 8 months now. Ive had symptoms for a long time but they never got too severe until now and idk I just feel so strongly I have it. I could be completely wrong idk. I’m just so exhausted and so tired of it all. It’s completely controlling every single aspect of my life. I just want to talk to someone. Maybe even get an opinion from someone who actually got diagnosed?

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User Profile: Jem7Cups
Jem7Cups August 9th, 2021

If you suspect you have BPD, then please go to a professional to get medixalt diagnosed. I made the mistake of waiting and suspecting and caused a lot of damage to myself and those around me. My inbox is open to you if you'd like a chat, but ultimately you need to seek professional help so that things don't spiral.


I hope you're OK.

User Profile: Deresekia
Deresekia August 9th, 2021

Hey! I have BPD so I know how stressfull it is,yet since I don't even know how to handle it myself I don't know how helpful I can be.

If you suspect you have it please talk to your relatives about it and search for professional help,your mental health is as important as your physical.

I hope you get better and find peace and if you wanna talk I am here,I'm new so I don't know if you can message me or not but I'd love to.



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User Profile: selfconfidentTortoise1212
selfconfidentTortoise1212 OP August 9th, 2021

Hi, I would love to talk. But I don’t think we can talk on here is there anything else you’d feel comfortable talking on?

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User Profile: QuietMagic
QuietMagic August 12th, 2021

@selfconfidentTortoise1212

7 Cups has 1-on-1 private messaging but only between either Listeners and Members or Listeners and other Listeners. So, if one of you creates a listener account you might be able to do it that way.

It's a bit inconvenient given this limitation on Member-to-Member communication, but sharing/requesting contact info isn't allowed per forum rules:

8. Refrain from sharing personal contact information
including, but not limited to, social media accounts, home addresses, phone numbers, messaging apps/sites, or any other medium of contact off-site.

If you'd like to talk with a listener, you're welcome to schedule a chat with me. Alternatively, here's a list of experienced listeners who take chats on BPD.

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