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Little BPD Reminders

September 12th, 2015

🌸Little BPD Reminders🌸

Having intense mood swings don't mean that you're manipulative.
Being ignored or if someone didn't message you doesn't mean that you're worthless.
Just because your illness requires lots of patience, reassurance and effort from those who choose to be around you, doesn't mean that you're a burden or impossible to deal with.
Your fears and trust issues may be irrational compared to others, but they are also valid and you have every reason to feel the way you do.
It's not your fault if someone who you trusted or care about abandons you.
Other people's opinions of you have no reflection whatsoever on who you are nor determine your worth or value as a person.
You have the ability to have a successful relationship if both parties involved are dedicated to making compromises and maintaining good communication to ensure mutual happiness.
The right person will come along and accept you for who you are and love you regardless of your disorder and your negative traits.
You deserve to feel happy and be loved as much as anyone else.
You are strong for making it this far and should be proud.

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User Profile: Siffa
Siffa September 13th, 2015

thanks for this <3

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September 13th, 2015

Anytime! It helped me so I wanted to share with you guys laugh

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User Profile: rescueme72
rescueme72 September 13th, 2015

i needed that today

User Profile: cutetransprince
cutetransprince September 17th, 2015

Thank you so much for this

User Profile: sunsetdancefloor
sunsetdancefloor September 26th, 2015

It's amazing, thank you. It made my day way better

September 26th, 2015

Same here guys. When I first read this, I felt a lot better :) I'm glad that I can help!

User Profile: Lee
Lee October 2nd, 2015

I really, really like the second last one.

It's true that we all deserve to feel happy and loved, especially from ourselves. Self-love is a true challenge when living with BPD and I think it's absolutely crucial that we recognize that.

Thanks for the post @alexlove

Lee.

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User Profile: Kayleethereforyou
Kayleethereforyou November 24th, 2015

@Lee

Definitely. So many times I have felt inadaquate to people, but we do deserve it. It is crucial that we recognize it. You couldnt be more right.. :) <3

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User Profile: Kayleethereforyou
Kayleethereforyou November 24th, 2015

Thank you so much for the reminders. You have no idea how many times I have been told I am manipulative for my mood swings :( I needed this today.<3

thanks for spreading this positivity.

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November 24th, 2015

@Kayleethereforyou anytime honey! contact me if you need a support :)

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December 23rd, 2015

BUMP ! For everyone who maybe needs it.

User Profile: falconer42
falconer42 December 23rd, 2015

"Other people's opinions of you have no reflection whatsoever on who you are nor determine your worth or value as a person." that one is so hard to remember, but so true. thanks for the bump @alexlove

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December 23rd, 2015

@falconer42 heart

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User Profile: pinger1976
pinger1976 January 3rd, 2016

Thank you,this is very helpfull