Trying to reach out?
Hi. I'm new to the whole 7cups thing. I have been diagnosed with BPD as well as depression and anxiety since my teens. I am 29 now. I am at a state of complete loss and am grasping at straws because my reality is shot at the moment. I have been spiraling down further and further out of control with absolutely everything in life. I am having a hard time getting through the day to day in order to support myself and my family. I guess the main thing we would be talking about are my anxieties (social anxiety is at an all time high), and relationship issues with my family (my guy + his 2 kids). Of course BPD is the overlying theme through and through. I just can't function anymore. If anyone out would be willing to try and be my listener, hopefully long term, I would greatly appreciate it. I know it is a shot in the dark, but that's really all I have at the moment. Thank you to anyone who took the time if you read all this. You are awesome. I hope you all have a lovely day.
@MakeMeMellow You are welcome to click on my profile picture and message me, if you like. I do sometimes chat with people over an extended period of time, so that would be possible if you feel it's right for you.
Charlie
Thank you Charlie. I appreciate it.
@MakeMeMellow
I can also offer long-term listening, though you're in very good hands with Charlie 💜
@QuietMagic Thank you Magic. When I am not so busy I will most likely reach out to you too. Or is it like the 12 steps when you should only have 1 listener? Who knows. I don't want to get my etiquette wrong. I messaged Charlie and started getting some things off my chest at least. I appreciate you reading and checking in. More than you know.
@MakeMeMellow
Sounds good.
It's a free-for-all. 
You're allowed to have as many or as few listeners as you want to.
Family man of 2 boys here with my partner and both of us are diagnosed with BPD we have a 4yr old and a 2yr old, I struggle with social anxiety and also PTSD from previous abusive relationships, of I can help in anyway or you have any questions for me im happy to help and will try my best to support you and help you through your rough patch and try and get you back on your feel, im 28 and historicaly have a poor mental health record, but ive done many thing to improve my life as much as possible not only for me but also for my family x
Feel free to ask me anything or message me anytime :)