constant emptiness, extreme loneliness and relationships never go through
i really dont know how ppl with bpd do it man lmao. im so exhausted of not receiving a sliver of care or support. i crave care so f*ckn much. Bpd’s intense negative emotions are just si overwhelming
@bobozebraman
Hi, welcome to 7 Cups. 💜 Yeah, that sounds brutal just being full of all kinds of overwhelming feelings like that, not having anybody to turn to for support, and not feeling like anybody cares about what you're experiencing.
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@bobozebraman We all want people to care about us in some form. This feeling is even more intensified when we're going through negative emotions. It's understandable that it is exhausting, anyone would be- struggling through overwhelming feelings alone is not easy. We're here to support you. I hope you have a great day! :)
I felt this soooo much. Literally crave it like a drug.. Im starting to think being back on my medicine is truly the only way to cope.
@raspberryCity4862
Yeah, getting that validation/support is such a great feeling, and then not getting it when you want it can feel just as awful. 💜
Just sharing a couple 7 Cups resources in case if they're helpful:
Self-help guide on loneliness
List of experienced listeners who accept chats on loneliness
@bobozebraman
I know! I feel so alone and isolated and unloved. The great thing about being a woman is that men will want you, no matter what. They may not care about you, and they might be violent at times but at least they will pretend to care for a little while, until they finish getting what they want. Some care is better than none.
@SweetPearCrumble
I'm sorry that such an imperfect type of care feels like the best that's available (i.e. "I don't really care about you, I'm going to be violent to you, but I'll pretend to care for a little while so you can hold onto those small scraps of love until I've used you to get what I want at which point I'll abandon you"). But can understand that thought of, "It's not great but it feels better than nothing." I hope at some point it becomes possible to live without needing to depend on people who treat you like that. 💜
i feel that, i still somehow enjoy male attention even tho im not interested in them. I really hope you can find the right type of attention bcs you dont deserve to go through mistreatment to feel loved/wanted :(
