Maladaptive Daydreaming & Conditions
Hello everyone 🌸 , today we're going to discuss Maladaptive Daydreaming.
Sometimes people who struggle with conditions also struggle with something called Maladaptive Daydreaming. Maladaptive Daydreaming is when a person makes a conscious decision to retreat into a world of fantasy or a narrative daydream. This use of their imagination can be an unrestricted way to escape fear. In some cases, it is a way to escape the anxiety caused by types of obsessions or intrusive thoughts. With daydreaming it happens to experience a strong or addictive desire to keep daydreaming.
* Is it normal to daydream?
It's normal for everyone to daydream from time to time, but it becomes problematic when one is not able to follow instructions or pay attention when required. Because there's no hard-and-fast, universal definition of daydreaming, we need to just pay attention to when it turns in having a negative impact in your daily life.
* What is an example of maladaptive daydreaming?
This is just one example but it could help clarifying about it: "we have maladaptive daydreams in which the central character of the daydreams is someone similar to yourself, but with distinct attributes and abilities that are quite unattainable. For example, you could daydream about a character with your same personality and interests, but who has much better skills."
*What triggers maladaptive daydreaming?
It is said that it can be triggered by real-world events or sensory stimuli. It can happen to have, as a result, unconscious facial expressions, repetitive body movements, or talking/whispering that accompany daydreams. Daydreams can last for several minutes to hours. A strong or addictive desire to keep daydreaming.
🌸You are welcome to share your own experience and if it helps, you can be guided in your sharing by some questions:
🌸1.Did you experience daydreaming?
🌸2.What are your thoughts and emotions about daydreaming?
🌸3.How do you think it's influencing your daily life?
🌸4.Did you see that specific situations or events can trigger it? Which ones?
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tw: incident of death [added by theriverissinging, aug 11 2023]
I know a person got "lost in his thoughts" a lot aka maladaptive daydreaming.
He recently walked in front of a train in this state. It hit him and he died.
@RogueOne1983
That's something dramatic, so sorry to hear about it.
@MeaningfulSilence
Yes he was a coworker of mine literally happened just this last week!!
It is a dramatic and extreme case of this but he literally was so unaware of his surroundings he stepped in front of a train!!
Your post is important and I support it.
@MeaningfulSilence
🌸1. Did you experience daydreaming?
yes
🌸2. What are your thoughts and emotions about daydreaming?
That I will be rich and have the freedom and independence to use my money.
🌸3. How do you think it's influencing your daily life?
I am having it very difficult to put up with the harsh reality.
@rosebeinghappy18
Hello there Rose 🌹... Can i call you Rose? :)
Thanks for sharing. Unfortunately things don't always go the way we would like them to be, i hear you! I think it can be quite frustrating at a time. Important would be that you try to be proud of what you do because you do your best, just sometimes external causes don't allow the expected outcome.
Hope it doesn't impact on your daily life too negatively Rose, my best wishes for your goals to become something doable you will achieve in the future!
@MeaningfulSilence
Thank you, Silence, for your kind and beautiful words. I am humbled. Yes, I am too hoping that MDD doesn't negatively affect me. Yes, it's always frustrating, but sharing makes me a little comfortable. When I get a little bit of encouragement from you, it helps me take a few more steps with strength.
Thanks for the really interesting post @MeaningfulSilence.
I'd never heard of this term before but it's definitely something I have and occasionally still do. I find it to be a way of self soothing and regulating when things feel difficult and it doesn't cause a big impact on daily life so I think it can be quite helpful at times.