Personality Disorders Community Check-in: April 24th–April 30th
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🤍 How has your week been?
🤍 What's something that has changed or transformed recently in your life?
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@QuietMagic I don't have any friends, so my life is always lonely.
@tryingtosurvive2024
That's definitely a challenge. 😢 Is it still the situation you mentioned last month where there are some people but they're not really reaching out or engaging sincerely, so it's kind of like "I can't call these people friends if they don't care"?
@QuietMagic Those people are not in my life at all anymore, because I quit my job.
@tryingtosurvive2024
That sounds a pretty big change. So I guess you went from "having some mediocre people" to "having no people at all". I remember you feeling like that sort of isolation would maybe be an improvement, but still sounds tough.
Has quitting the job been difficult also in terms of losing something that filled up time and created some kind of regularly scheduled activity and reason to get up in the morning?
@QuietMagic I get up ok, and get things done. If I didn't my parents would yell at me for sure.
@QuietMagic
How has your week been?
still sick but other then that and our home aid quiting she leaving on may 1st she no longer going to work for state as a home aid. she looking for another type of job. so that going to make our life harder but we be ok
What's something that has changed or transformed recently in your life?
this hard to just put one thing as there three big ones so going to put all three as they go together too.
first one is living in abuse almost all our life. it changes everything you know and believe are set by the abusers so they wrong believes that lead to wrong actions at times.
other one is our faith it made the bad things we went through not our beliefs fully due to we did have love from God and am accepted by Him. this helped big time for us even when abused within one of the churches we went too. as God gave us hope and always been there to talk to no matter what ones saying. that transformed us a lot as it gave us other things also that our family not really go by. think it why we lot different then other family members too.
the last one happened only 8yrs ago but was ongoing from long ago as we healed from the abuse found out it was not normal beliefs we had as far as what was done to us and yess at times we did to others. we been healing a long time doing healing work. so that was and is transforming our life. but in that it gave us understanding that others in family were not changing at all for the better. so that lead to us leaving family and limiting any connected with them. that gave us freedom from the abuse that was still going on that happened may 17th 2017. within this freedom there been lots of healing and new beliefs. but most of all it transforming us day by day into who we are becoming within freedom
@stormieandpaws
Sorry you're still sick. Are you planning to get a different home aid or try living without one?
Makes sense re: all of the different influences that have had big effects:
- Abusers instilling problematic beliefs
- Faith offering support/hope during difficult times and allowing you to become a different person than the rest of your family
- Realizing that your beliefs around certain things weren't normal and that leading to leaving your family and finding freedom
@QuietMagic
How has your week been?
still sick but other then that and our home aid quiting she leaving on may 1st she no longer going to work for state as a home aid. she looking for another type of job. so that going to make our life harder but we be ok
What's something that has changed or transformed recently in your life?
this hard to just put one thing as there three big ones so going to put all three as they go together too.
first one is living in abuse almost all our life. it changes everything you know and believe are set by the abusers so they wrong believes that lead to wrong actions at times.
other one is our faith it made the bad things we went through not our beliefs fully due to we did have love from God and am accepted by Him. this helped big time for us even when abused within one of the churches we went too. as God gave us hope and always been there to talk to no matter what ones saying. that transformed us a lot as it gave us other things also that our family not really go by. think it why we lot different then other family members too.
the last one happened only 8yrs ago but was ongoing from long ago as we healed from the abuse found out it was not normal beliefs we had as far as what was done to us and yess at times we did to others. we been healing a long time doing healing work. so that was and is transforming our life. but in that it gave us understanding that others in family were not changing at all for the better. so that lead to us leaving family and limiting any connected with them. that gave us freedom from the abuse that was still going on that happened may 17th 2017. within this freedom there been lots of healing and new beliefs. but most of all it transforming us day by day into who we are becoming within freedom
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Interesting!!