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Personality Disorders Community Check-in: September 30th–October 6th

User Profile: SilverSeastar
SilverSeastar October 1st, 2022

Hello, PD Support Community!

It has been a while. I hope you've all been keeping well. 😊
Wishing everyone a pleasant October ahead! I'm sending my best wishes and happy thoughts your way 🧡

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🍂 How was your September? How do you feel?

🍂 What are some tasks that when done, would make your life much easier?

If you prefer not to answer these questions, feel free to share anything that's on your mind, say hello, or just ask for a hug. 🧡 Always happy to hear from you.

The heat of autumn is different from the heat of summer. One ripens the apples, the other turns them to cider.Jane Hirshfield


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User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 October 1st, 2022

@SilverSeastar

Hi, Seastar,

How was your September? How do you feel? It sucked. I feel like I was attacked and beat up.

🍂 What are some tasks that when done, would make your life much easier? getting a job that I can settle into and getting an answer from grad school so I know which direction I am to go in

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User Profile: SilverSeastar
SilverSeastar OP October 25th, 2022

@purpleTree4652

Hello, Tree,

I'm so sorry that the last month made you feel attacked and beat up. I hope you've been able to get some break and it's been going better since. Sending you our support, you're not alone, Tree. I believe you've got this.

Best of luck on grad school and settling into a job. 💙 I hope you'll get one that is fulfiling and that you can enjoy.

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User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 October 25th, 2022

@SilverSeastar

Seastar,

One thing I can say is that I've got friends, and you are one of them. :)

When something happens as far as grad school letting me know if I've been accepted or not, or something with a job that I can live with, you can be sure I will scream loud and let you and everyone know.

xo, tree

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User Profile: SilverSeastar
SilverSeastar OP October 25th, 2022

@purpleTree4652

Aww, Tree, you warm my heart. I love your spirit 😊 and I'm glad to have an amazing friend like you.

Yesss, we'd love to hear from you! Good luckk 🍀

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October 2nd, 2022

@SilverSeastar

Terrible if I am honest, broke up with long term bf. Spent thousands on doing things properly and forcing sale of a property, sister said she’d sign and now nope. There’s been a torrent of every button pushing situations this September but these I remember vividly. A composure in myself that’s followed the same sequence deteriorating along the way.

if I could just live alone in my own home it would make things so much easier.

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User Profile: SilverSeastar
SilverSeastar OP October 25th, 2022

Hello, there,

That must be really difficult. I can see how you would feel that way; break-ups are tough. Please know that you're not alone and we're here to support you through this. 💙

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User Profile: PoliteOcean
PoliteOcean October 4th, 2022

@SilverSeastar


🍂 How was your September? How do you feel?....It went well. Smooth transition from Summer (which I will miss) to Fall~


🍂 What are some tasks that when done, would make your life much easier?.....Anything around my house. Like dishes, laundry, and just simply keeping things neat, tidy and organized daily~ (I'm a Neat-freak)!

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User Profile: SilverSeastar
SilverSeastar OP October 25th, 2022

@PoliteOcean

Hi, Ocean!

So good to hear things going well for you. Hehe I hope this fall will be enjoyable for you as well.

Ooh, keeping things neat and organised every day? I admire you, Ocean. If only I could keep up with my chores too. 😝

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