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Number of ratings256 Number of reviews74 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceJul 20, 2015 Last activein last week PathStep 524 People helped441 Chats2,134 Group support chats1,748 Listener group chats1,521 Forum posts9,616 Forum upvotes12,812
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I'M  CURRENTLY TAKING A BREAK FROM CHATS AT THIS TIME..... I APOLOGIZE, HOWEVER, PLEASE FEEL FREE TO BROWSE FOR ANOTHER ONE OF OUR MANY WONDERFUL & AVAILABLE LISTENERS. "BROWSE LISTENERS HERE"  (However, my Pm's are always open if you are in need of help or assistance "outside" of chats.)~ 



 

Hello, Glad you found me here on 7cups. I’m PoliteOcean~ (You can call me "OCEAN")~~ I'm a Spouse, a Parent, & also registered in the Healthcare Field.~ I am also a Fitness Instructor with a passion for Dance, ZUMBA, & POUND. I am here to listen, support and not judge you. I will be glad to talk with you! I cannot solve all problems but I've gone through many of my own personal issues so perhaps I can help! Please feel free to contact me. If I'm away, please leave me a message. My Pm's are always open.



**LISTENING STRENGTHS**


*Family Stress

*Healthy Living & Fitness

*Parenting




 **CURRENTLY ACTIVE IN**


* COMMUNITY MENTOR LEADER

* HEALTHY LIVING TEAM LEADER & SUPPORT ROOM LEADER

*ADULT CHATROOM AND FORUM MENTOR 


 * Group Moderator

Discussion Trainer

* Verified Listening Team 

* Door Keeper


 

Recent forum posts
Weekly Healthy Living Check-In March 16th, 2024
Healthy Living / by PoliteOcean
Last post
3 hours ago
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...See more WEEKLY HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN MARCH 16th, 2024 HEY EVERYONE~ *WELCOME To Our End of the week "WEEKLY" HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN"~ 🍀🌈🌞🌺 ⭐️If you aren't a member yet Please "JOIN" the Healthy Living Community Here!! [https://www.7cups.com/home/healthyliving/] ⭐️FEEL FREE TO ANSWER ANY OR ALL QUESTIONS! Or Simply tell us about yourself and how you've been doing! Feel free to share or Vent about your week~ We are here to listen! 🍀 Hey Everyone~ How are you and how was your week?... For those that dealt with the "Time-Change" this week, How did that go for you and how did you adjust?! 🌈 This is our 3rd Check-in for March & we are officially "Half-way" through this month already!~... How do you feel you are doing so far in your "Personal" or "Wellness" goals that you've set for yourself this month? 🌞 In the Next week ahead it will be the start of 'Spring-time" for many of us, and letting go of those "Winter vibes"~... (Whether it's something physically, mentally, emotionally, or otherwise), WHAT is something that you are looking forwards to "Letting go of or Getting rid of" as we enter a New season?~ 🌺 JUST FOR FUN:... It's almost Spring!.... If you were "Spring Cleaning" your Home today, WHAT would be the "FIRST" Room you'd clean & and What would be the "FIRST" item that you'd get rid of?! 🍀What were your "Highlights Or Struggles" of the week?.... How were you able to work through your challenges?! 🌈 What is something that "YOU" want to talk about, add or share with us this week?! ....WE want to hear from YOU!~    Healthy Living Team Leaders: @PoliteOcean @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @Azuldragon  @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @Regmo @purpleTree4652 @InsightfulPhoenix @nordurnStar @KateDoskocilova @SirenOfSerenity @Rebekahwriter13 @EmbStitcher33 @calmsoulmeet @sweetrosa1987  @AffyAvo @Bre4Me  @Caringmama2022 @CarolineEmily01 @CyclingThroughLife @determinedCat7367 @diamondintheROUGH2022  @GoldenNest2727  @selflessSpruce1515 @SilverSeastar @Spectaculaur @BestMaple2045  @determinedNest6866 @HipsterChic @DestinyM2026 @charmingSky597 @GreenFairie @WayJay @orangeHuman868  **AND ANY & ALL "NEWBIES" THAT WOULD LIKE TO SHARE WITH US
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Weekly Healthy Living Check-In March 9th, 2024
Healthy Living / by PoliteOcean
Last post
March 12th
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...See more WEEKLY HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN MARCH 9th, 2024 HEY EVERYONE~ *WELCOME To Our End of the week "WEEKLY" HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN"~ 🍀🌈🌞🌺 ⭐️If you aren't a member yet Please "JOIN" the Healthy Living Community Here!! [https://www.7cups.com/home/healthyliving/] ⭐️FEEL FREE TO ANSWER ANY OR ALL QUESTIONS! Or Simply tell us about yourself and how you've been doing! Feel free to share or Vent about your week~ We are here to listen! 🍀 Hey Everyone~ How are you doing today & how did the First week of March go for you? 🌈 This is our 2ND Check-in for the Month~.... This weekend many of us will be turning the Clocks "Ahead" One hour~ How many of you are looking forwards to the 'Time Change'? ... How do you feel the time change affects you personally?..... In what ways do you feel it affects your overall wellbeing Physically & Mentally?  🌞 I realized that This month almost every single Sunday/Weekend has a "Holiday or Event" of some sort... (From the Time change, Ramadan, to St. Patricks Day, Palm Sunday, & Easter)... Which events or Holidays do you celebrate or are you looking forwards to this month?.. How will you celebrate them? 🌺 JUST FOR FUN:... With the Time Change coming, & more Daylight time, What things are you looking forwards to being able to do more of?! 🍀What were your "Highlights Or Struggles" of the week?...... How were you able to work through your challenges?! 🌈 What is something that "YOU" want to talk about, add or share with us this week?! ....WE want to hear from YOU!~   Healthy Living Team Leaders: @PoliteOcean @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @Azuldragon  @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @Regmo @purpleTree4652 @InsightfulPhoenix @nordurnStar @KateDoskocilova @SirenOfSerenity @Rebekahwriter13 @EmbStitcher33 @calmsoulmeet @sweetrosa1987  @AffyAvo @Bre4Me  @Caringmama2022 @CarolineEmily01 @CyclingThroughLife @determinedCat7367 @diamondintheROUGH2022  @GoldenNest2727  @selflessSpruce1515 @SilverSeastar @Spectaculaur @BestMaple2045  @determinedNest6866 @HipsterChic @DestinyM2026 @charmingSky597 @GreenFairie @WayJay @orangeHuman868  **AND ANY & ALL "NEWBIES" THAT WOULD LIKE TO SHARE WITH US
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Healthy Living Icebreaker Fun: "March Icebreakers: National Cereal Day! 3/7/24"~
Healthy Living / by PoliteOcean
Last post
March 8th
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...See more HEY ALL~ WELCOME TO "HEALTHY LIVING'S "ICE-BREAKER FUN"~ 🌞TODAY "MARCH 7th" is "NATIONAL CEREAL DAY"! (Like whoever heard of such a thing)?  BUT.... LET'S TALK CEREAL! 😃 1.) WHAT is YOUR CURRENT "FAVORITE" CEREAL? 2.) WHAT WAS YOUR FAVORITE CEREAL AS A CHILD? 3.) DO YOU DRINK THE MILK FROM THE BOWL WHEN THE CEREAL IS ALL DONE? 4.) HOW DO YOU LIKE YOUR CEREAL? (Soggy, Crunchy,  OR a Little Mix of Both)?! 5.) HAVE YOU EVER USED WATER ON YOUR CEREAL INSTEAD OF MILK?! 6.) FROSTED FLAKES...OR... LUCKY CHARMS?! 7.) CHEERIOS...OR... FRUIT LOOPS?! 8.) CAP'N CRUNCH...OR....CINNAMON TOAST CRUNCH?! 9.) HAS THERE EVER BEEN A CEREAL YOU WANTED TO TRY BUT HAVEN'T?...IF SO WHAT IS IT?! 10.) WILL YOU HAVE A BOWL OF CEREAL TODAY TO CELEBRATE?! 😀
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Weekly Healthy Living Check-In March 2nd, 2024
Healthy Living / by PoliteOcean
Last post
March 6th
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...See more WEEKLY HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN MARCH 2ND, 2024 HEY EVERYONE~ **WELCOME To Our End of the week "WEEKLY" HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN~...This is our "FIRST" Check-in for the Month of MARCH!~ 🍀🌈🌞🌺 ⭐️If you aren't a member yet Please "JOIN" the Healthy Living Community Here!! [https://www.7cups.com/home/healthyliving/] ⭐️FEEL FREE TO ANSWER ANY OR ALL QUESTIONS! Or Simply tell us about yourself and how you've been doing! Feel free to share or Vent about your week~ We are here to listen! 🍀 Hey Everyone~ Welcome to the Month of MARCH!~ How are you doing today and how was your week for you? 🌈 This is our FIRST Check-in for the Month~.... MARCH tends to be the month that many of us associate with a period of "Renewal", a New & Refreshed spirit & outlook, or even New & Fresh beginnings as we leave behind winter & look forwards to Spring, Sunshine & Warm days ahead.... WHAT are "YOU" looking forwards to the Most this Month ahead?! 🌞 What are Some "New" Goals or Intentions that you'd like to Focus on, incorporate, or continue with in this Month ahead?  🌺 JUST FOR FUN:... IF You Had To Live in the "LAST" Movie that you watched and be roommates with the Star, WHAT MOVIE would you be living in, & WHO would your Roommate be?! 🍀What were your "Highlights Or Struggles" of the week?...... How were you able to work through your challenges?! 🌈 What is something that "YOU" want to talk about, add or share with us this week?! ....WE want to hear from YOU!~ Healthy Living Team Leaders: @PoliteOcean @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @Azuldragon  @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @AveryLove @SirenOfSerenity @Regmo @EmbStitcher33 @calmsoulmeet @sweetrosa1987  @AffyAvo @Bre4Me  @Caringmama2022 @CarolineEmily01 @CyclingThroughLife @Dallady @determinedCat7367 @diamondintheROUGH2022  @GoldenNest2727 @nordurnStar @ouiCherie @PandaHelp000 @Rebekahwriter13 @selflessSpruce1515 @SilverSeastar @Spectaculaur @BestMaple2045 @purpleTree4652 @determinedNest6866 @HipsterChic @DestinyM2026 @charmingSky597 @GreenFairie @KateDoskocilova @WayJay @orangeHuman868 **AND ANY & ALL "NEWBIES" THAT WOULD LIKE TO SHARE WITH US
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Weekly Healthy Living Check-In February 24th, 2024
Healthy Living / by PoliteOcean
Last post
February 27th
21
...See more WEEKLY HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN FEBRUARY 24TH, 2024 HEY EVERYONE~ **WELCOME To Our End of the week "WEEKLY" HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN~...This is our "LAST" Check-in of the Month~ 💘❄️💌 ⭐️If you aren't a member yet Please "JOIN" the Healthy Living Community Here!! [https://www.7cups.com/home/healthyliving/] ⭐️FEEL FREE TO ANSWER ANY OR ALL QUESTIONS! Or Simply tell us about yourself and how you've been doing! Feel free to share or Vent about your week~ We are here to listen! 💘 Hey Everyone~ How are you doing and feeling today?.... What did you do for the weekend? 💌 This is our LAST Check-in for FEBRUARY~.... How did your week go?... How do you feel this Month has gone for you overall or how would you "Sum" it up for yourself? ❄️ What are Some Positive things from February that you can "Focus" on in the Last week ahead that can also help Set  you on a Positive path going into the New month ahead?! 💘 JUST FOR FUN:... Today February 24th is "NATIONAL DANCE DAY".... WHAT is your Most Favorite Song to get up and DANCE to?! 💌What were your "Highlights Or Struggles" of the week?...... How were you able to work through your challenges?! ❄️ What is something that "YOU" want to talk about, add or share with us this week?! ....WE want to hear from YOU!~ Healthy Living Team Leaders: @PoliteOcean @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @Azuldragon  @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @AveryLove @SirenOfSerenity @Regmo @EmbStitcher33 @calmsoulmeet @sweetrosa1987  @AffyAvo @Bre4Me  @Caringmama2022 @CarolineEmily01 @CyclingThroughLife @Dallady @determinedCat7367 @diamondintheROUGH2022  @GoldenNest2727 @nordurnStar @ouiCherie @PandaHelp000 @Rebekahwriter13 @selflessSpruce1515 @SilverSeastar @Spectaculaur @BestMaple2045 @purpleTree4652 @determinedNest6866 @HipsterChic @DestinyM2026 @charmingSky597 @GreenFairie @KateDoskocilova @WayJay @orangeHuman868 **AND ANY & ALL "NEWBIES" THAT WOULD LIKE TO SHARE WITH US
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Healthy Living Icebreaker Fun: "Spring-Fever" Icebreaker Fun 2/20/24"~
Healthy Living / by PoliteOcean
Last post
February 27th
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...See more HEY EVERYONE~ WELCOME TO HEALTHY LIVING'S "SPRING FEVER" ICEBREAKER FUN! 🌞Is Anyone having a case of "Spring Fever"?.... How many of you are ready for "SPRING-TIME"?!. 🌞Its not far off now~ .....Enjoy these "Spring-Fever" Icebreakers until then~   🌼 What is your Favorite Spring Activity? 🌞 Do you like to 'Spring-Clean"? 🌷 What Song gives you "Spring-Vibes"?! 🌼 What's your favorite "Spring-time" Food?! 🌞 Roses OR Daffodils?!  🌷 Biking OR Hiking?! 🌼 Lemonade OR Ice-Tea?! 🌞 Butterflies OR LadyBugs?! 🌷 Spring Picnic OR Spring BBQ?! 🌼 Would you Rather Be the "EASTER BUNNY" ..OR.. a "LEPRRCHAUN"?
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Weekly Healthy Living Check-In February 17th, 2024
Healthy Living / by PoliteOcean
Last post
February 21st
15
...See more WEEKLY HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN FEBRUARY 17TH, 2024 HEY EVERYONE~ **WELCOME To Our End of the week "WEEKLY" HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN~... 💘❄️💌 ⭐️If you aren't a member yet Please "JOIN" the Healthy Living Community Here!! [https://www.7cups.com/home/healthyliving/] ⭐️FEEL FREE TO ANSWER ANY OR ALL QUESTIONS! Or Simply tell us about yourself and how you've been doing! Feel free to share or Vent about your week~ We are here to listen! 💘 Hey Everyone~ How are you doing today?... What are your weekend plans? 💌 This is our 3rd Check-in for FEBRUARY~.... This past week was Valentines Day, in what ways did you celebrate "yourself"?..... Name some positive things you did for yourself "Mentally & Physically"! ❄️ What is something that made you Smile or just simply Feel Grateful this week?! 💘 JUST FOR FUN:... If you could have ANY Super-power, WHAT would it be?! 💌What were your "Highlights Or Struggles" of the week?...... How were you able to work through your challenges?! ❄️ What is something that "YOU" want to talk about, add or share with us this week?! ....WE want to hear from YOU!~ Healthy Living Team Leaders: @PoliteOcean @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @Azuldragon  @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @AveryLove @SirenOfSerenity @Regmo @EmbStitcher33 @calmsoulmeet @sweetrosa1987  @AffyAvo @Bre4Me  @Caringmama2022 @CarolineEmily01 @CyclingThroughLife @Dallady @determinedCat7367 @diamondintheROUGH2022  @GoldenNest2727 @nordurnStar @ouiCherie @PandaHelp000 @Rebekahwriter13 @selflessSpruce1515 @SilverSeastar @Spectaculaur @BestMaple2045 @purpleTree4652 @determinedNest6866 @HipsterChic @DestinyM2026 @charmingSky597 @GreenFairie @KateDoskocilova @WayJay @orangeHuman868 **AND ANY & ALL "NEWBIES" THAT WOULD LIKE TO SHARE WITH US
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Healthy Living Icebreaker Fun: "Valentines Icebreakers Fun 2/14/24"~
Healthy Living / by PoliteOcean
Last post
February 19th
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...See more HEY EVERYONE~ WELCOME TO HEALTHY LIVING'S "VALENTINES ICEBREAKER FUN"~ 💘 Roses are Red, Violets are Blue, Sugar is Sweet and so is _______? 💌 Name ONE Song that you Know or Like with the Word "LOVE" in it! 💘 What is your favorite Candy? 💌 Romantic Movie OR Hilarious Comedy? 💘 Make "Valentines Crafts" OR Bake "Valentine Treats"?!  💌 A Valentines Weekend in PARIS OR a Valentines Weekend in ROME?! 💘 Would you Rather "Drink a Love Potion" OR "Eat a Pound of Chocolate"?! 💌 Chocolate Hearts OR Gummy Hearts?!  💘 Would you Rather "Meet Cupid" OR "Meet the Tooth Fairy"?! 💌 Would you Rather be serenaded by "Ed Sheeran" OR "a Jonas Brother"?! 
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Feedback & Reviews
They are sweet, helpful, listen, and offer encouraging situations.
A very excellent listener. Very kind and compassionate. Always knows the right things to say. Highly recommended.
She picked me up when someone in my life hurt me, reminded me of the good things that I have accomplished and helped me with sorting out what my plans are to go forward. Was also nice just to have a great chat about some things in life in general. Super encouraging!
A wonderful listener, so kind. Very supportive in the healthy living forums. PoliteOcean has been very helpful to me!
Definitely the nicest person I met here :) thanks
Thank you
PoliteOcean is a fantastic listener. She was able to relate to me and give me support at a time that I needed it. I highly recommend her, and if I could award her more than 5 stars, I would.
the best person in the world
Amazing listener!! Thanks for your support.
You're a great leader in the sub community for Healthy living. You're a real role model and you are an awesome human being.
Ocean is a great listener. She has awesome tastes in movies and I talk to her every now and then. She is a real shooting star and I admire her for her dedication to the healthy living team. She motivates me to be healthy and I think that's great. This positive review is for you, Ocean. Keep on being a star.
Ocean is pretty awesome. :)
You really understand me.
Great Listener. I didn't request a listener and yet they reached out to me and it meant more than anything to me tonight so Thank you!
Really caring, supportive and helpful! A wonderful listener ♥
Great listener and super supp
Quite helpful, leading to the right conclusions. Very caring and attentive. Professional.
This listener picked me up from the hole I find myself in, dusted me off, and helped me look for a route out. And all done with kindness and compassion. Couldn't ask for better. Thank you so much.
As usual, this listener was amazing :) I just can't find words adequate enough to describe her. Truly amazing.
Great listener
Amazing person. Helped me a lot. Make sure she sees my review.
just greattttt
Very good and helpful listener. Helped to sort out my problems and suggested good solution.
very good
Absolutely wonderful!
nice
She was very, very helpful. She helped me through a crisis I feel I've been going through for a long time. She is great!
she is amazing and gave me hope and i would love to talk to her again
Very helpful and nice for my anxiety about dentists and hospitals
you are making the world a better place. truly!
Best listener yet!
Very kind, supportive and understanding. This listener really gets it.
Very sweet (:
What a great listner. Im new to this and she just made me feel so comfortable. Thank you for what you do. God bless you
Thank you for chatting with me! It means a lot to me to know that there are people like you out there who care so much, and are willing to be there for someone in distress. You're an awesome listener!
First person i came across when i joined & was immediately blessed with understanding & advice. Thanks again.
Keep it up.
It was amazing, thank you!
All I have to say, " blessings for this humanitarian soul"
thank for being open minded & thank you so much for the encouragement
You were awes
Awesome amazing listener!!!
Very helpful and nice. Helped me out tremendously
Thanks for your support
Great listener~ Thank you.
the best person I have ever known, thank you
great person, one of the best I have seen in a long time, the world needs more people like this person,
amazing listener!
She is a wonderful listener I would recommend her to anyone who is looking for a listener that is good try politeocean93
Really helped me get a lot off my chest. I feel a lot better now. :)
My computer stopped working towards the end of our conversation, but up until that point this was the most productive, helpful conversationIi have had in a few weeks. What an incredible listener politeocean93 is, and I will definitely be coming back to this site to talk again, I would recommend this listener in a heartbeat as well as this website.
Thank you for caring about me when no one was thear for me.
Such a fabulous listener!! I flooded the chat upset and scared, My heart felt heaven. You made me feel welcome and very relaxed to share and I left feeling encouraged and heard.
Good. I have a lot of problems so it ok
great
content with her/him
polite
smart
empathy
cute
politeOcean93 is a really super listener! I would recommend her to anyone!
A great listener, non judgmental and very supportive. An asset to 7 cups!
very empathetic listener. i felt like she truly understood me. thank u :)
Great listener. Great advice-giver.
totally what I needed
Fantastic LIstener. Brought perspective to a situation without giving advice. Outstanding listener!
Understanding and very nice.
Totally awesome! I'm so grateful to have found this site. And for your kind words and genuine support.
Listener is very thoughtful and insightful, brings rational thought into emotional situations. I stopped feeling panicked and worried as we talked. Very helpful.
yes melissa was very helpfull and very curousely and i hope to follow up with her again
Awesome, uplifting...professional. Very good responses. Thank you so much !! =)
So very helpful.
Really good to be able to talk things out with politeOcean93. Thank you very much! Having someone to reassure you that you are trying to the do the right thing when others say you're not is a good source of comfort. Thanks again!
THey helped so much, they were so patient and talked to me for a long time and always gave really thoughtful answers!
Very helpful and calmed me down made me feel much better
This person definitely was very understanding and gentle and i enjoyed talking with them
The best so far. We need more people like you. Thank you
She was very supportive, very patient and connected with me. I'm forever grateful for her kind words to me.
great
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