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User Profile: Laura
Laura February 5th, 2015

FROM ME!

NEED ONE???

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ALL WELCOME

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User Profile: MissMoodles
MissMoodles January 22nd, 2019

I need hugs. I lost my dear Dad recently and I am so alone 😣😣😣

User Profile: neonBalsam8979
neonBalsam8979 January 22nd, 2019

@MissMoodles

Can't imagine what you must be going through. My heart goes out to you and your family!

((((Hugs))))

User Profile: MelatiHati
MelatiHati January 22nd, 2019

@MissMoodles sending you lots of hugs💕you are going to be okay * hugs *

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User Profile: haeroq321
haeroq321 January 22nd, 2019

Need hug for work this week.

User Profile: placidSpruce4830
placidSpruce4830 January 22nd, 2019

Hugs for everyone heart

User Profile: MelatiHati
MelatiHati January 22nd, 2019

Ya i need a hug.

I'm not sure whats wrong with me today.

I feel like crying at work.

For no clear reason.

I just had that pain sad feelings.

I feel silly.

How do i overcome this feelings...

User Profile: lonelylinguaphile
lonelylinguaphile January 22nd, 2019

@MelatiHati

Depression is like that - often for what seems like no reason the world turns grey and everyday you want to cry, and don't know why, and feel ridiculous because no one else seems to get it.

I get it. I understand. And I think you're super brave for reaching out even though you feel silly - it took me far too long to do the same. And you know what? You are important, your feelings are important, and...

You deserve the biggest hug ever (HUGS)!!!

Take care of yourself, and if you need some more help, reach out to a listener here on 7cups - they're there to help us get through the tough times and are eager to do so. I've received much help on bad days from the lovely people here.

User Profile: MelatiHati
MelatiHati January 22nd, 2019

@lonelylinguaphile do you think this is depression...? I really feel like.. super silly 😢 .. i want to shake this feeling off me... ive been like this on off since forever.. sometimes i feel so confident. I pitch in ideas to group.. i can laugh and it does come from my heart.. often i will retreat to some more secluded place because im afraid i will just burst out in tears and that will look silly because just second ago i was laughing and having fun.

User Profile: lonelylinguaphile
lonelylinguaphile March 4th, 2019

@MelatiHati

Sorry I took so long to reply - saw your message and then closed the page accidently and couldn't figure out how to find it again (facepalm..)

I'm no professional but from personal experience I would say it sounds like depression to me. I have always been like that too; perfectly happy one minute and the next wanting to burst into tears and not knowing why. Sometimes these 'grey' days last for months - just went through my longest period of depression yet, which was almost five months long, and my most severe. I contacted a therapist here on 7cups (until I couldn't afford it anymore), and she confirmed my tentative self-diagnosis of depression.

I completely understand how hard these sudden shifts in mood can be, especially since I (and maybe you do this too) feel that people are confused and maybe a little disappointed when I become withdrawn and sad after being happy and active the day before. But remember - often these feelings are just projections of how you or I feel, not really what the other person thinks. I know your message was a while ago, but are you still going through a rough time? If so, I can recommend a book that my therapist recommended to me that has been very helpful if you like. I also use this app called Woebot, which you might think sounds weird when you read the description on the app store but I've found it to be very helpful for soothing negative emotions in the moment.

Hope this helps - take care! heart

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User Profile: calmsoulmeet
calmsoulmeet January 22nd, 2019

In a dire need of a hug . Feeling so low . :(.

User Profile: PinkDahlia22
PinkDahlia22 January 22nd, 2019

@calmsoulmeet

Warm hugs to you , relax and look after yourself your never alone :)

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User Profile: lonelylinguaphile
lonelylinguaphile January 22nd, 2019

I've been on a gradual upswing from the worst bout of depression I've ever had, and I'm terrified to start doing things again because I'm afriad it might trigger the depression again. Tomorrow I'm going to do something scary with some people who I don't know very well - I already made the plans so I can't back out now, but its been such a long time since I've done anything like this. They say you've got to get back on the horse but the scariest moment is when you put your foot in the stirrup and wonder how hard you'll fall next time, and if next time you'll be able to get back up at all.

Long story short - I could use some hugs...

User Profile: cyanOwl994
cyanOwl994 January 22nd, 2019

@lonelylinguaphile

Here is a big hug for you<3. Best of luck with your upcoming plans. I too have been through a bout of depression recently. I know how it feels to get back out there. But let yourself believe in yourself. You got this. yes

User Profile: lonelylinguaphile
lonelylinguaphile January 22nd, 2019

@cyanOwl994

Thank you!! I needed to hear that :)

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User Profile: gigglePuppy25
gigglePuppy25 January 28th, 2019

@lonelylinguaphile

Big hugs

User Profile: lonelylinguaphile
lonelylinguaphile January 29th, 2019

@gigglePuppy25

Thank you heart

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User Profile: SunflowerSeed1233
SunflowerSeed1233 February 22nd, 2019

Oh man, @lonelylinguaphile, do I know how you feel! Every glimmer of brightness bears that asterisk that you cant take push it too far or it may escape you. Thats the best way I know how to describe it - its a scary and frustrating thought. But the fact that you describe yourself as on an upswing is so promising! Escaping that initial trap is the biggest hurdle - now you get to rebuild, and that is SO exciting. I believe in you and Im sending positive thought and light your way. 😊

User Profile: lonelylinguaphile
lonelylinguaphile March 4th, 2019

@SunflowerSeed1233

Thank you so much!!! Sorry - just got this message now. I'm glad to know I'm not the only one who feels this way, and your encouraging words are a big comfort right now. I did the scary thing, and it was... well, scary and awful, but I still did it. And now I'm about to do something even scarier, but this time I feel about 7% more confident about it, so that's an improvement!

Thanks for taking the time to encourage me - it means a lot! heart

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User Profile: easyWater4109
easyWater4109 January 23rd, 2019

I need one, it

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easyWater4109 January 31st, 2019

@easyWater4109

here you go 🤗

User Profile: DeepBlueOcean00
DeepBlueOcean00 May 28th, 2019

@easyWater4109 is it possible in real to hug ownself? Anyway hugs for you 🤗🤗🤗

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User Profile: crystalcleardawn76
crystalcleardawn76 March 7th, 2019

@easyWater4109

I've had a bad couple months too....

HUG HUG HUG HUG HUG

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easyWater4109 March 8th, 2019

@crystalcleardawn76

aww, thNk you 🙏 and 🤗a hug and a 😘 kiss for you my friend!

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User Profile: paycar213
paycar213 May 29th, 2019

@easyWater4109 I need 1 too

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User Profile: nunyabeezwax
nunyabeezwax March 6th, 2019

It is not entirely the presence of a hug, but rather the feeling only a certain person can emulate when hugging me. I miss my mothers arms. Not a day goes by where I don

User Profile: ANGLEBUDDYS
ANGLEBUDDYS March 6th, 2019

hugs everyone

User Profile: Dancersoul
Dancersoul May 16th, 2019

huggs