How Old Do You Feel? The Answer Can Reveal a Lot About Your Health, Scientists Say
"Is it true that you’re only as old as you feel?
Studies are finding a link between people’s “subjective age” or “psychological age” and their future health and longevity. Psychological age can differ from chronological age, and some psychologists and gerontologists say there might be ways to improve physical health by making yourself feel younger—or at least taking a positive attitude toward aging.
Feeling older than your chronological age is associated with a higher likelihood of dementia, frailty, stroke and heart disease, according to recent research by scientists and academics studying links between psychology and health.
“It is really good and important to feel younger. It is soft protection. If I feel younger, I am more motivated to be engaged and active,” says Susanne Wurm, professor at University of Greifswald and an author of the study published earlier this year in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.
Participating in new experiences, such as traveling or taking classes, and resisting negative assumptions about getting older might help you feel younger and improve your outlook, researchers say.
Being in good health is a big reason why many people might feel younger than they are—and therefore might live longer, according to scientists who study the psychology of aging. Many of those researchers believe the effect can go the other way, too, noting that those with a younger and more optimistic sense of aging might be more apt to take care of themselves.
“Age beliefs are quite malleable. They are not set in stone,” says Dr. Levy.
She believes it is possible to shift your attitude about getting older. In her book “Breaking the Age Code,” Dr. Levy suggests writing down your beliefs about aging to make yourself aware of them and tracking ways in which older people are portrayed in the media to identify stereotypes that might be influencing you.
“Try to become aware of both our own beliefs and the ones we’re exposed to and don’t let them hurt you,” says Dr. Levy.
‘It is really good and important to feel younger. It is soft protection. If I feel younger, I am more motivated to be engaged and active.’
— Dr. Susanne Wurm
To assess your subjective age, start by asking:
How old do I feel? You can ask the question on any given day or in specific situations, such as when you are with younger people, Dr. Touron says. You can also ask how old you feel in different areas, such as your physical abilities, mental performance or social connections. There is no set formula, she says.
Being open to new experiences and challenges is one way to lower psychological age, Dr. Touron says. Take classes. Travel. Attend workshops. Spend time with friends who have positive attitudes about aging. Spend time with people younger than you by joining a hobby group or book club, she says.
Don’t assume that common slip-ups are necessarily signs of cognitive failure, adds Dr. Touron. Repeated memory lapses that interfere with your daily life can warrant a call with your doctor. But plenty of younger people sometimes lose their keys or can’t find their cars in the parking lot. If your friends or family attribute those mistakes to age, correct them, she and other scientists say.
“The beliefs you have about the inevitability of decline as you age can be self-fulfilling,” she says."
Read the full article on the Wall Street Journal
Having multiple serious chronic conditions makes me feel physically older than I am. I don't think travel or taking a class is going to change that.
@AffyAvo
Hey there Affy
I hear you. Given your serious conditions, I can get where you are coming from. You make a lot of sense and I’m sorry if this article wasn’t mindful of that. I appreciate your honesty.💜💜
@AffyAvo
I might be able to relate. I've worked with individuals with several chronic conditions and I've seen how their bodies age at a much quicker pace. Some of them were so serious that we feared that their bodies could fail on them any day.
I do remember one person with a degenerative condition. I had never worked with someone with her condition and oftentimes I wasn't sure what to do. My job was to help her get ready for a future career, but because her future was constantly in question, she didn't see the point in it and talking about the future would just trigger her anxiety. For a while, I just accepted that our meetings were always going to be uncomfortable. Things changed eventually though. She started to come to school in person as well as going out more often to do thing she enjoyed like doing equine therapy and spending time with friends. Soon enough she was the one pushing to get a job and get out into the real world. I think what happened was that she started to feel like she was part of a community and was enjoying what she was doing.
Anyways, this was much longer than I intended. I have no idea what type of serious chronic conditions you have, but I hope that you feel better, are surrounded by community, and can do things you like to do :) Take care.
@Espejo Thanks! I do what I am capable of doing, it's not that I am not putting effort into doing things at all. It doesn't really change that physically, my body feels more aged. With that does come having to give some activities up as well, they just were doing too much harm.
@AffyAvo
You're very welcome! I'm glad to hear that you are being active and getting to know your body and being more compassionate with it as well. As I'm getting older I'm also realizing the limitations of my body.
Now I'm embracing "softer" activities like yoga, meditation, and watching inspiring videos because I feel energized and positive afterwards. I know older people who have also cut down on what they can do, but still stay physically active so it delays the effects of aging. I think it also helps be in a positive and inclusive community. Hope you're able to keep doing activities you enjoy so as to feel as young as possible! 💐
@innateJoy9602
Thanks for this post and all your other wonderful posts Joy! All of this makes sense. I've often been told that I look younger and I do feel younger because I do the things they recommend like traveling, taking new classes, and spending time with younger people.
However, I can remember when I've felt drained and older and it was when I was in toxic environments with people who were resistant of change. Some of that seeped into me and I have the white hairs to prove it lol! Glad I'm not there anymore :)
@Espejo
Awh Espejo!
Thanks for sharing your experience. It’s always nice hearing about people’s experience with the topic at hand. It adds another perspective and gives the opportunity to learn more. I think that’s interesting how you have experience working with someone who had a degenerative condition. I appreciate you sharing that. <3
Toxic environments really can be so draining. That makes sense. I’m glad you are not in that place anymore. Thanks again for your insight💜
@innateJoy9602
Thank you innateJoy! You are too kind :) Hope you are enjoying your day 🌺🌻