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8 years together and 5 months engaged and it’s gone

User Profile: fgallegos138
fgallegos138 May 10th, 2021

My partner who was my high school sweetheart left me for another guy she did not want to fix our relationship even though I really wanted to and now idk I feel like I’ll never find someone like her again and I’ll just be alone

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User Profile: moquila
moquila May 10th, 2021

This may sound corny, but life has so many possibilities. Maybe you can't find someone like her, but it doesn't mean you can't open yourself up to a whole new perspective, and you should explore it. For example, if you find a woman with different looks and personality than your ex, don't be too quick to dismiss the possibility of getting hooked up with her. You feel downhearted like you are now because you're still reeling from the breakup. Give your heart time to heal, and when you're ready, go seek those new opportunities.

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User Profile: fgallegos138
fgallegos138 OP May 10th, 2021

Thanks for the kind words, I’ll definitely keep this in mind it’s just crazy to me that not even 2 weeks after leaving me she’s already with someone else and that’s making it really hard for me

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User Profile: resourcefulOwl7361
resourcefulOwl7361 May 10th, 2021

I’m so sorry to hear that, I’m going through a breakup after 9 years together, also wanted to keep working to fix our relationship but he was done trying. I totally understand what you’re saying, I feel like he was my soulmate and don’t really see myself dating anyone else. But I’m going to take this time to heal myself and then try to work on myself and create a life that I am excited about. You are still so young and have your whole life ahead of you! We have to believe that there are better days ahead. Sending you positive vibes ✨

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User Profile: fgallegos138
fgallegos138 OP May 10th, 2021

Thank you so much for the kind words I’m send you positive vibes as well, I’ll do the same an work on my self and look forward for better days and a happier future

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User Profile: resourcefulOwl7361
resourcefulOwl7361 May 11th, 2021

Thank you so much! It’s honestly not easy but it helps being able to connect a little with someone who is going through something similar. Hang in there!

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