A broken heart.
No matter what challenges we face in life, I don't think anyone will avoid pain of a heart break . It could of lasted 5 weeks, months, or years. It just happens. The unreal pain of someone not wantingyou anymore . I never thought how hard it was get over ssomeone. It's been a year and I still see the boy who broke my heart. We became stranger's . Its hard , but I will tell you this . The pain lessons slowly and all you can do is work on yourself . Never try to hurt yourself or sabotage your future . always remember this .
" THIS TOO SHALL PASS "
Any stories or commentswelcome!
I am here because I had it all. I had a beautiful wife a healthy boy a successful company. I did everything to provide for my family. Then last spring I found out my wife was having an affair. My life changed that moment. I went from a healthy strong fit man to nothing. Because of the things she said and did to me I lost 45 lbs looked real bad. Could not eat sleep and pretty well curled up in a ball and panicked. Only time I was ok was with my son. After a few months of this she begged to come back said she was sorry and she would make me feel better I let her move back in cancelled the court dates exc and a month later she was back at it again. Here I am a broken man again all alone trying to figure out how to survive another day. The hurt is so bad and panic attacks and many other emotions I never felt before. I'm so tired of felling like this. I tried to do everything right I went to my doctor. Went to a therapist. And recently walked into the hospital emergency room because I did not know what to do. I love my boy so much I just want my life back
You can get your life back, do it for your son whom looks up to you. With all due respect I don't think your wife appreciate what she has, sometimes it takes a person to hit a low point in their lives to realize how fortunate they were. She's unfaithful because she knows you LOVE her and will take her back no matter what. Sometimes, even though it hurts, we must ignore those feelings in order fort the other person to wake up. You're not only hurting yourself in this relationship,but soon, your son will also be affected by this unhealthy environment. Hope this helps, I wish you the best
I am so sorry you are going through that, twice! Obviously, your wife doesn't realize what a great guy she had. You deserve to be with someone who will not take you for granted. Try to move on. Focus on your son and yourself and in time you may find someone new. Hang in there! We are all rooting for you. ♡
