Abusive ex will retirn. What do I do?
My long distance ex always gets angry disappears and then appears again. Sometimes a few hours later he will call longest is 6 months which was the last time. I knew i was silly to try again but have had so much loss this year that i wanted something good to happen. Now 3 days ago he tells me to f*** off yet again over text.
Im really wavering between wanting him to call and never wanting to hear from him again. I really want this to be the end so him calling will achieve nothing and i will be better off if he never calls. I know that so why do i want him to call so much still?
I know eventually he will call and i want to be strong and stick with my decision not being together without having a fight or being nasty. But i dunno what to say.
Im as confused as i sound and change emotions several times a day.
Sounds like he's very manipulative and you better be very careful because people like that attack your vulnerability and make it seem like every thing is your fault.
Thank you. I just want to be free of it now. Its funny how others can see right away how he is manipulating me and its took me so long to realise.
I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through this. I can kinda relate, my ex broke up with me (not abusive but we broke up because of a deal breaker issue) and I go back and forth between wanting to hear from him and not wanting to hear back from him ever again because I know I would probably take him back and then I’ll continue to be miserable. Stay strong and remember that you deserve peace. As much as you may love and miss him, nothing is worth your mental health. Hang in there!