Advice needed
My girlfriend broke up with me 6 weeks ago and I went no contact. She broke no contact by texting me twice. 2 weeks ago she sent me this text Im really sorry to keep messing you around like this but Ive been thinking about what you said and I do think it would be nice to still see each other, even if its not often and if you still want to. Ive really missed you Tom.
What do you reckon shes thinking?
@oliveCranberry3991 . hm its hard to say but do you want to get back with her ?
@kitkat34567
yes I do. We were probably arguing too much but our working situations were strenuous. She had just been rejected from uni and she unhappy about me looking for a better job due to me setting up my own business. (Pretty skint because of this.) however things are slowl y changing and she is becoming a lot warmer with me when talking. We have met up three times now.
I don't know what to think about that either . It's strange her contacting you all sudden after few weeks saying she wanted to break up .I would not be so keen to rush into seeing her again so soon . For to do that sounds you need to be wary. I know you may think to give her benefit of doubt but look how it looks. She's messing you around .can't just change her mind . It's like had friends who didn't wanna know me then suddenly say sorry can I we be friends again It's messing you around . You deserve better and probably do. I would talk to her face to face and see what she says and have a plan. Let her know you feel and your there to be messed around with . Set boundaries . Hope that helps .
