Before I Go
I am engaged to a man I've been in a relationship with for 13 months. We've been very happy. Suddenly on Wednesday he accused me cheating and left. I swear I did nothing wrong. He hasn't been home since. We messaged yesterday for a bit. He said he loves me and he'll come home and we'll work things out but he wasn't ready yet. He put me on ignore and we haven't messaged or spoke since...that was nearly 24 hrs ago. I can see he's been online since. It's like he's forgotten about me. I'm very hurt about the accusations and the way he's treating me. His mom said just give him some space. So I'm backing away. I need time to think too...I dont know if I want to continue the relationship with him. What are some of the questions to ask myself when considering if I want to end things with him?
Why would he accuse you of cheating? I think a good question to ask yourself is whether you want to marry someone who can’t trust you and runs away and ignores you when you say you did nothing wrong?
Have you ever read about the dismissive avoidant attachment style? He's going to do this to you over and over again, probably.
