Boyfriend cheated on me
Was with my ex for just over 3 years, we recently moved in together and things started falling apart around then. He told me he wanted to be polyamorous, and we discussed more about him wanting kids and me not. Things got worse and worse, and we agreed to take a break on Wednesday, but didn't establish any boundaries since he had a weekly game night that had already started and we decided we'd figure out our boundaries and talk about it when he got home. But he never came home and I got a text at 6am from a guy saying he found my ex with that guy's ex girlfriend. I messaged him, told him not to come home. He came home the next night and we broke up and had a very long conversation about things. I'm so broken, and lost. I got home last night and he wasn't here, which somehow hurt more than if he was. I've been having panic attacks almost daily, I can't sleep, I'm so miserable.
@coffeecandy
It is hard to deal with an end of something.............. Did you not want to break up?
you were on a break..called him your EX and guy who texted you called the girl his EX........ seems like both were able to see others .......if they were EX's ...........
After you found out and he was gone for a day or two.........then you had a long conversation.........
that ended the relationship........... If you are miserable and unable to sleep i would think you did not want to end the relationship.
Do you want him back? does he want to come back..?
what would have to change? not only on his part but yours as well...
i will assume by title of cheating there was something physical on his part but on a break seems to be a grey area..... if you want different things and he was ready to move on maybe it is for the best....
