Break Up Advice
Hello, my name is Tyler. I recently took a break from my relationship, so my girlfiend could focus on herself. She them messaged me about a week and a half later that we should be friends. She still loves me and cherist every moment with me. She said that we arn't forsure getting back together, nor did she say we weren't. About 5 days after she sent me that message, I was hanging out with her and she started kissing me. It's been back and fourth with mixed feelings. I haven't talked to her about our relationship status, or how she's been feeling because I wanted to gove her some space. I still love her a lot. Should I talk to her about it? Should I asker how she feels about "us"? I don't want to push her away, but I don't want to lose her. I'm in a confused and mentally unstable state. I can't think and feel really upset. Thank you.
It's normal to fear to make things worse by asking her a clarification. I know you don't want to push her. However, she's the one who is making things so confused: she took a break to focus on herself and the place this relationship has in her life, yet she keeps coming back and forth, confusing you even more. I know that she's not making you feel so lost on purpose, she's probably just doing it because she's confused herself, but he shouldn't play with your feelings this way.
You have the right to talk to her about it. You can tell her that you care for her, but you want to know whag's your relationship's status, and if she needs to think about it you'll give her space, but this all back-and-forth thing is making you feel lost. It won't be easy to have that talk, but it's the only way to establish what your relationship's status. You both need this to find a bit of mental and emotional peace.
