Break up
I have been dating a girl since 2012 and she broke up with me saying that I am not ready for marriage. But the reason is I just completed my master's degree and looking for a job. I can't get married unless I have a job and I am settled. Now she is already seeing a guy and they are planning their marriage. I kinda broke me from inside. I have no idea what should I do?
@powerfulPenguin3935
it is so heartbreaking, that another guy has nothing to do with your breakup ? does she love you, ask yourself. sometimes it is so hard to know you are one standing there feeling same for person but they move on with someone else. Don't rush your feelings, your feelings are valid... take all your time if she doesn;t love you back.. then start preparing yourself that you deserve love as well..
hope things go smooth in your masters degree and you got your dream job.
9 years is a long time to be together without getting married. I think that’s a generous amount of time she gave you. Is there a reason why you didn’t at least propose to let her know the marriage is coming? Maybe you can propose to her now and see what she says.