Break up
Although my 5 year relationship started to break down in 2019/2020, he kept promising me things would change and I believed him so I stayed and tried to make it work. He finished with me back in June, he blocked me on social media and I thought I'd moved on. I'd even started to see a new guy. He turned out to be seeing another girl whilst seeing me. A few weeks ago my ex unblocked me on social media and messaged me to say he was in a new relationship and my heart sank and I feel like I'm back to square one again. To add to this yesterday, I recieved my results back from a routine check to say I've cells which are possibly cancerous. I feel its one thing after another and I don't have my support there anymore. My head is in such a mess it's telling me I should get over it but I'm struggling.
@coconut713
Hey, Idk if this advice is the best one but maybe you need to let out what you feel about him. You feel betrayed and cheated on and with good reason! He was not behaving properly with you and needs to listen what you have to say. That burden maybe will lift and you'll be able to move on.
He wants nothing to do with me and his mother and older sister have gone in on me and blame me for how it ended. They don't know half the story and what we went through. I was carrying his baby at one point but lost it to stress he was putting on me. I'm clearly such a bad human being. In a way its nice to hear from someone that I have a reason to feel like I do. Thank you
I’m so sorry to hear about your breakup especially since you were together for so long! I can relate, I’m going through a breakup after 9 years together. Anyway what kind of person reaches out to their ex only to let them know they’re seeing someone else?! Your ex just seems mean. You don’t deserve that and just remember that you deserve the best! Also I once had a Pap smear that indicated possible cancerous cells but after further testing, they ended up not being cancerous, so try to have hope and not to worry until you know for sure— I know this is so much easier said than done! Sending virtual hugs your way!
