Break up...
This guy I've been seeing on and off for about 2 years...... I live in Canada he lives in the states.... I had over $300 saved cause he was suppose to come see me this summer. I would pay for one way he would pay for the other... And For the past month we've been pretty much dating but not officially..... Saying stuff like baby I love u.... And shit....
And lastnight he was like " babe I have something to tell u." I was like ok he was like " I'm in a relationship."
A couple days later we got in a huge fight, he told me I annoy him so much it makes him wanna kill himself.... We made up... A couple days after that he told me he only wants to talk once in awhile.... I felt like we were drifting apart.. So I ended things, I felt like his feelings towards me had changed so I told him I didn't wanna talk anymore.... It's been killing me, so much... And idk what to do anymore.... Idk how to cope... I've been cutting.. I've been so depressed..
@ThatgirlK Sorry you are having a rough time in a long distance relationship. It is definitely not right for your bf to blame you for what he feels. That is his responsibility for how he reacts to others.
Sorry you are self harming. Have you considered any other ways that are more effective coping in the long term. Examples might be a support group or therapist specializing in self harm.
There is also a self help guide on coping with self harm here on Psych Central.
