Break up help
Well, my girlfriend and I broke up about two/three weeks ago with our relationship. She says she feels strange, different, confused and that she needed time.
A few days after the breakup, we were together. I told her to think it over and then tell me if she still wants to be apart - unfortunately she said that "for now" she wants to stay that way.
I walked away, but after a few days she contacted me. From then on she started calling me a few times and texting me a lot, and we started hanging out together a few times.
I always try to connect physically, but it's been difficult, sometimes she pulls away.
Yesterday we were together again, we finally kissed, although it was a little short because she had to leave for a trip. She says she wants to go back, but she is afraid it will go wrong again.
What to do in these situations? This is depressing me, I just want to stay in bed - I don't even recognize me lmao
We dated for two years, we always had a huge connection and intimacy. She stills have photos with me in social media and in her room.
Could you give me any suggestions? What tip would you give to someone who went through this situation?
Hello Deezy.
I'm sorry to hear about your breakup with your girlfriend. Those are never easy to do for both persons involved. I can't imagine how you must be feeling since it happened. It will take to get through this, but it is not impossible for you to do so. It seems like she is still unsure of what she wants and it's understandable because they may be many factors she has to consider before making a decision.
As for tips on how to get through the breakup, it may be worth a try looking at our self-help guide on Breakups here: https://www.7cups.com/breakup-advice/
During this time, you will feel more and experience things you may not have before. 7cups is here to support you as you get through this. There are group chatrooms, like Relationship Support, Sharing Circle and Support room where you can connect with members and receive support. There is always the option of connecting with a listener if group rooms aren't your preference.