Break up with long distance girlfriend

@Jas0355

But suddenly her family want her to marry so they suggest some boys.she started talking with 2 boys and meet one boy. (You mentioned she is able to talk with her parents to see if something can be done, so she does have a say in this. The religion and family pressure is something that will come first over anything else.)

So 25 days ago her family suggest her one boy. She met him and started liking him and started talking on call 3-4 hrs. (This must had make you feel very hurt because this a woman you love. Her family seems to have a lot of influence of her decisions)

After 2 day meeting him she told me that she will marry with him and she don't want to keep 2 boy in her life so she want breakup and keep me as best friend. (This tells me we are dealing with someone who is quite hurtful and was seeking to line someone up before doing the breakup. I do feel that being friends with her will only hurt you, and it would be manipulative to take this route because you want more than friendship. Friendship only benefits her, not you))

She started ignoring me it's really hard for me because I really love her but she is doing blind trust on me (I can understand you feel hurt and upset after the way things ended. I truly believe choosing self respect over her is truly important at this time. She handled things in an immature way, so if you start chasing her then she will lose respect for you and wiill keep you in the background while making things work out with him)

She started telling me everythig how she met and how he is..she got too much attachment with him. (It must had been really hurtful to hear talk about all of this. She is being overwritten by the honeymoon phase feelings, where everything is new, everyone puts their best foot forward and where red flags are being ignored. I don't think is attachment, she is heavily projecting unmet needs on him)

What's should i do it's good to being with her as best friend because I still love her or should I block her from everywhere ? (You are in the mindset of "I have to do something on order for her to do what I want". You are only being friends with her because of the fear of losing her. The most self respecting thing to do is being congruent with what you want and being able to walk away if she can't give you what you want. Friendship will only benefit her, she needs time to grieve over you when you are not part of her life)

No importance for me in her life..she told me that she wants me as good friend always so she will share everything.but it's hard for me. (I can tell you are choosing her needs and well being ahead of your own, it shouldn't be like this because you got a lot of value. You dont want friendship, you want to be with her. She won't change her mind if you are after her or being her friend)

I think it's too early to love someone what's should I do.2 days ago I crying for her on call but she cut the call and told me he is doing call so I have to attend his call.its really rude. (You have a lot of value, and you are enough. It's so important to start acting like it. You don't chase, beg, plead or be friends with someone who tells you "Hey I got to hang up on you to talk with this other guy". You deserve people who are going to value your time, not some girl who cares about you when she needs to be listened)

How to make her guilty that she is doing very wrong with me..I just want my importance back. (By taking your power back. Friendship and being part of that person life should be off the table when you want something more, but still she doesn't come across to me as a good person)