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User Profile: anchoredwithhope
anchoredwithhope September 29th, 2015

Heartbreaks are always there as they are a part of life. It doesn't make it hurt any less so here's some support for people with a broken heart heart

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anchoredwithhope OP October 1st, 2015

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anchoredwithhope OP October 1st, 2015

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anchoredwithhope OP October 1st, 2015

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anchoredwithhope OP October 1st, 2015

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sunnyAcai7846 October 20th, 2015

@anchoredwithhope

User Profile: hiimanupa
hiimanupa November 29th, 2015

@anchoredwithhope omg this is so good

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anchoredwithhope OP October 16th, 2015

Time heals all wounds.

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findingbalance95 October 19th, 2015

I second this notion. But so do ice cream and sad love songs that you can relate to

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anchoredwithhope OP October 19th, 2015

@findingbalance95 Music and ice cream. I agree! Nothing better for the soul laugh

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anchoredwithhope OP October 16th, 2015

Okay, so I'm writing this from the deepest parts of my hearts... heart

So you really thought he/she was THE One and you're all torn up inside about something that has happened or maybe even something you think was your fault... Well this is my view on it and I'm sure we all have our own opinions so I would love to hear some different views on this..

Well maybe it felt like it was the perfect relationship but do keep this in mind:

We all have our own puzzle pieces. We find the ones that bring out the best in us. And it wont always be a love at first sight thing. These long lasting relationships that end up with grandma and grandpa growing old together takes time. If you rush love youll get a Romeo and Juliet relationship and that didnt end very well.
See two people were made for each other. Like soul mates. And they work perfectly together, though like two actual puzzle pieces theres a little bit of friction sometimes but they always stick together, no matter what. You have to match one piece to a few wrong ones to be sure you have the perfect fit. Your personality and your beliefs and thoughts, everything about you two wont be the same because on a puzzle, you put two completely different puzzle pieces together to create one big beautiful picture. In the end the person you find needs to take all your imperfections and their own imperfections to create something utterly beautiful.


Just never lose hope that some day someone will hug you so tightly that all your broken pieces are put back together.
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User Profile: hiimanupa
hiimanupa November 29th, 2015

@anchoredwithhope :-) love your thoughts and your words!! thanks for sharing <3

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anchoredwithhope OP October 16th, 2015

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anchoredwithhope OP October 16th, 2015

Please take a minute to read this.

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User Profile: fairmindedBalloon6827
fairmindedBalloon6827 October 19th, 2015

I'm going to stay away from him. He isn't good for me. He doesn't value me. And I don't really know why I care about how he feels toward me. It's not my business anymore.

I feel worse about myself after I spend time with him. He has zero love for me. I'm just a way to pass time and be entertained. Those were his exact words.

He also forgets the time he was black out drunk and told me everything he does is a game and he would make me beg for his attention. Truly revolting. Acts like he's a romantic with a big heart for the girls he loves just so he can be unromantic to me as a way of being cruel.

Sorry I hurt your ego but I never beg for anyone's time or attention. I never have and never will.

It makes a pit in my stomach. Sadness, missing who I once thought he was. A decent guy who was my friend. But I don't miss who I now know he really is. A narcissist with a mean streak.

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anchoredwithhope OP October 19th, 2015

@fairmindedBalloon6827 Oh darling! You deserve so much better than that! I know the missing them part is the hardest but you could try getting hobbies or spending time with people who make you happy regardless what you do. And sooner than you could imagine your life will be so much better without him. It's different for everyone so try and find things you're comfortable with . Just remember your happiness comes first. heart

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User Profile: fairmindedBalloon6827
fairmindedBalloon6827 October 20th, 2015

Thank you for your kind words anchored. There are times I rationally understand and times I just feel confused and despair. But I'm seeing less and less of those times that I can see around my sadness. It will get better and good a ice to keep busy.

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anchoredwithhope OP October 21st, 2015

@fairmindedBalloon6827 I'm so glad! smiley I will see if I can find cute ideas to keep yourself busy with laugh To stay distracted..

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