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Heartbreaks are always there as they are a part of life. It doesn't make it hurt any less so here's some support for people with a broken heart 
We broke up because he was having a hard time with distance. A few weeks later I told him that I'm going to be going there for grad school probably (not necessarily because of him, but because I want to-- I'm doing this for me) and all he said was "If you decide to come back, I will not be part of your life here." I'm confused and hurt. That phrase keeps replaying in my mind over and over.
I'm still so in love and I wish that were enough for him. Love knows no distance. Each day is so hard. He promised he will always love me. Everyday I wake up wishing for a text that says "I made a mistake" but it hasn't come yet and I'm afraid it never will. It's been a month now and I still cry most days. My world feels dimmer, I can't motivate myself to do anything... and even after all this pain he has caused me, I still want him and would do almost anything to have him back.
@purpleorchidtea
He didn't even have the courtesy to call or skype me to break up. It was all over text. He refused to see me or hear me. Is that all I am worth? ...a breakup over text?
He's the one for me and I'm the one for him (he said so) and I just don't understand this.
@purpleorchidtea I know what you're going through. I got broken up with via text too. Not even the courtesy to speak to my face. It sucks but it shows they aren't strong enough to face the decision and mistake they will realise they've made
i know it's tough and honestly I still wait for the text saying that she's made a mistake and wants me back. I haven't heard from her in 2 weeks and haven't seen her in nearly 2 months. It may seem grim at the minute but trust me you'll get there. Don't get me wrong you'll have tough days, I still find myself thinking about her all the time and getting myself upset. But I'm starting to feel more like myself again every single day. The only way they'll realise the mistake they've made is by themselves. You can't convince them, all you can do is be the person they fell in love with and who knows what will happen. Try to keep positive, it's tough but keep the head up. I thought I was hopeless but I can feel myself getting there day by day. And if I can, so can you
@Ross71 Thank you. It's really nice hearing that other people are experiencing the same feelings as me. I hope you're hanging in there.
Hmmm don't know
You leave me but want me to stay and not lose me for good. You tell me you need me in your life and you plan on taking me back, but you tell me at the same time to not wait for you and to not expect anything. You tell me you love me and you miss me, but the next day you seem to forget and you push me away. When my pain surfaces you run away. When you're in pain, I try all my might to take it all away. Your words have an impact on me. Every single thing you say affects me. I am one of the things that you are not sure of. A dispensable thing that you can just leave behind anytime you decide to. You know I don't have the strength to leave even if you tell me to. It doesn't come easy for me and it's surprising. You pull me back to you the moment you say I'm sorry, I miss you, and I love you. Because to me, you're worth everything I ever stood and fought for. Not one moment did I regret being with you. I love you. You can't understand that the pain that you cause is something I see as an important part of our relationship, and not something that will make me leave and give up. It wouldn't hurt as much as this if I don't love you the way I do. I learned that I can love. I learned that I can actually get jealous. I learned that I'm human and I can make mistakes and try my best to correct them. The growth that you keep telling me that we need apart was present even when we were still together. You just haven't realized that yet. It's the reason why we are where we are right now; the reason why we can't let each other go completely. We help each other be better. We challenge each other in ways we thought were impossible. We balance each other. Your yin to my yang. I pacify your anger, you help me get rid of my fears and insecurities. But that's just me. Maybe you feel otherwise.
I loved every second I spent taking care of you. You've grown into this stronger, independent woman who can make her decisions on her own and for the betterment of the people she loves. You've grown so much better than you were when I first met you. And I can't be any prouder of you. I'm not asking you to commit to me, or make me your girl. I want to be THE woman you'll spend the rest of your life with, but if someone comes and she takes care of you and loves you more than I could ever do, be with her. I only want you to be happy. But if she hurts you and you decide to leave, know that you will always have a home with me. You can always come back. I will always love you. I think that's how it is when you love someone. You make and prepare yourself to be the best partner for them and not force them to change how they are. And that's what we do and continue to do, I guess. So you take your time. I'm not going to wait for you or expect you to come back. I'm not going to force you to be with me if you don't want to. You can let go of me when you feel you need to. You can be with anyone you like and make you happy. If you're really supposed to be mine, you will be. I forgive you.
Me and my ex dated on and off for a year and a half. He seemed like the light at the end of the tunnel. Everyone tols me he was crazy and controlling and not to be with him. I took their words into consideration but i also knew id hate myself if i never gave him a chance.
Everything was fantastic for the first 3 months or so. He spoiled me, made me feel like i was a princess. I was so lost in his eyes and his words, i loved every last little thing about him. I told him everything, my depression, self harm, suicide attempts. He listened, he unter stood. And after every relationship i've ever had (besides one) ending in me being cheated on, he made me feel whole again, like he fixed all of the pieces. He took my virginity...
Little by little the people i thought were my friends shut me out. I didn't mind much, i fugured "its just highschool, this happens alot in highschool, you drift apart". Little did i know he was the one pushing them away from me, he'd spread rumors saying i hated them and talked trash about them and blah blah blah.
3 months into this so called fairytale i found out he was sexting another girl. It killed me. After this being one of the best relationships i've had i decided to give him another chance. I never really forgave him and i guess thats where i should've cut it off because after this, over the course of the year and a half, he did it repeatedly with about 4 different people that i know of (He sent nudes/flirted/recieved nudes/ect). I kept forgiving him because i can honestly say i loved him. when things were good they were great and i loved him.
The last person he cheated on me with was my best friend.
I tried to forgive him, i couldnt. He went crazy on me. I still have feelings for the him he was around me even though i know it wasn't who he really was. it kills me. Even our friends thought we were going to make it. i guess some people are just more two faced than you think. I miss him so much and it kills me not to be cuddled up with him. i need to not be around him, not see him or hear of him to help move on. But he's started following me, no matter where i go to get away from him he's always there and it scares me.
god im sobbing so bad right now, i cant finnish this DX
I am in love with my guy bestfriend.. He doesn't feel it anymore .. He is always keeping himself away from me , but even though i always go and text him.. But he don't feel it anymore , I don't know what should i do, he became far away from me and I don't know why, we were so close!
anyone can help?
It's hard to get through a break up, I've personally been there before, it's not easy, especially when you love that person. It takes time, but you will definetly get there. We are all here to support you and help you get through it, your friends, family and 7cups members. I hope everything goes well for you and try to think positive.
Good luck <3