Broke-up with a friend

I’m sorry this happened to you. I know how difficult losing a friend can be, especially when we’ve grown close to them over a period of time. Sometimes friendships must be broken for the mental health of both people. Every human makes their mistakes, and you will learn to grow from that. It’s a difficult healing process, and it takes time. I wish the best for you and your friend, and I don’t know how close you both were, but there may always be a second chance. <3 Stay safe.

Hey willingfig, I’m so sorry to hear what your going through, it sounds like your really going through it. Losing friends is so incredibly hard. It can be just as hard as losing a family member or romantic partner…what matters is how much you loved and were attached you were to each other, not the label on the relationship. I’m so sorry that’s going on for you now. Sometimes we’re not perfect in life and I know it’s hard to believe but no matter what, you don’t deserve anything bad to happen to you. We’re all just humans trying to make our way through life- which can be extremely rough sometimes- in the best way we know how, with the limited information that we have. Sometimes we may not be at our best, and sometimes that’s a long stretch of time, but no matter what your still a precious human being and you deserve all the good in the world, no matter what mistakes you might have made or what your struggles might be. If you think of all the struggles you have had and all you’ve been through in life, it’s amazing your courageous enough to keep going and it’s understandable that we might make some mistakes sometimes, or have a few battle scars. Life isn’t always easy.

I struggle with feeling I deserve the worst myself. so I know it’s so much easier to believe it for another than to believe it for ourself sometimes. My heart goes out to you though, and your not alone.