Came out of an abusive relationship
I had my divorce finalised recently. My ex was constantly mentally abusing me because of something false a third person said on social media behind my back using a fake ID. This happened for more than 9 months. He also had a negative background of cheating and affairs in his family which I didn’t know about until after marriage. This could also be the reason for his disrespect towards women, mental instability and being a psychopath.
I later find out that the third person was my childhood best friend and cousin sister who was living happily married in America. She has ruined my life. So has my ex for believing her.
I don’t regret this divorce. But I’m traumatised for life. I don’t know if I will ever find love again or if my ex or my cousin will try and harm me again. I have become paranoid.
@Twister457
It takes enormous strength to pull yourself out of something so terrible , you did it and I am so proud of you .
It is valid to feel paranoid and worry about your safety, emotional as well as physical.
Please take care and if possible talk to someone, maybe a family member , friend or here on 7 cups .
For now, healing and loving yourself is the priority and you can do it , day by day at your pace.
Sending Healing beams ❤
I’m sorry this happened.