Cannot get over
Hi everyone,
Just wanna share cause it still hurts to me a lot, last july 2021 me and my friend cross paths via socila media, we are far from each other, i am married but me and my wife are not together anymore. Well we ended up texting other everyday and we develop to wach other easily cause we know each other before, she is a single mom and we told problems to each other, we became like we can say partner, she cannot put title on us cause she said that i am still married and she knows that her family will not accept it. We are ok for a couple of months and suddenly after christmas and new year she changed and like do not care for me any more, we ended up always fighting and just now we ended our relationship and she said that her guilt is eating her because for her it is still a mortal sin cause i am still married and other people can still call her a mistress cause i am still married , yah seperated but not divorced cause in our country divorce is forbiden. It realky hurts me a lot cause i know we love each other but because of my situation it makes very complicated. She meant a lot to me and i love her so much but i let her go cause i understand her and still can’t get over with, Still waiting for her messages, i just winder why it happened now, it only 10 days left and i will come back home for her. So frustrating cause i cannot be with her anymore like we planned.
@akatsuki03 It must have been hard for you dealing with this. From what you said, the breakup is still fresh. I would suggest taking time to be calm and to get all the overwhelming feelings out of the way first before thinking about this again. If you can, write down and journal your thoughts and feelings. This will prevent you from saying and doing things you might regret. Taking action while you're high on emotions won't do any good.
I hope you get to talk to her openly in time. You should both be ready, calm and open if you decide to talk things through and come up with a solution to your relationship status.