Cheating
My wife of 15 years came to me asking for a divorce. She said I don’t care about her and I am selfish. Both of us have been complacent in the marriage. So we were working on it. Today, she made a strange phone call telling me she would be in meetings and I couldn’t call her, but our kids counseling appointment was tonight and she wanted to know if I wanted to ask anything. I told her my concerns. I checked on her because it was strange, her life 360 app said she was at work, but I tracked her car and she was at a guys house 25 minutes from work. I am broken, I didn’t say anything to her. I can’t look her in the eyes. I am broken.
Hello @jay5128, I am sorry to hear that this is going on. It is really hurtful when a spouse keeps things from you. I don't know where you are at emotionally right now, but have you considered talking to her about this? I don't know your situation, so my thoughts aren't going to be the greatest, however from personal experience, communication is really important. It doesn't have to be right away, just the longer it waits, the more feelings could get hurt. Once again so sorry to hear about your situation. I hope things start to look up for you <3
I am beyond hurt. I don’t feel like I can approach her. She doesn’t care about me, last talk with her about a week ago she told me to go f myself.
It hurts something terrible, and because I went through this 6 months ago, it will get better. and once you know she is lieing you can't go back.
Not knowing your circumstances . I am currently going through a similar situation. that is the reason I found this site. Before going on this site I spoke with my sister and she said what my partner did was absolutely wrong but do I understand why she could have done something like this. And someone from this site told me what would you tell a friend who came to you with a similar situation. It is always best to look at things in an understanding manner.