Confused!!
Help! My boyfriend broke up with me after a 3 tear relationship. We lived together and had two dogs. Its been a month and we’re seeing eachother most days (he’s teaching me how to drive), we hug when i get into the car and he buys me groceries and food for work and offerered to pay more of the rent so i could save for a car. Today he said “i might sleepover, not tonight though”. It feels like we’re not completely over but i’m not sure, i’m just being in the moment. We broke up because he was overwhelmed and he wanted to focus on himself but he’s still caring so much for me! The love is still there but i’m just confused.
@selfdisciplinedPond2088,
don't respond to remarks like "I might sleepover". You are making yourself dependent by accepting what he offers. Stand on your own feet. Show him you appreciate him, but also make at clear by action that you don't need him and are quite capable of taking care of yourself.
Yeah ur right but i dont know if i should say “what’s going on here?” It feels like we’re not completely over and i don’t think it’s fair for someone who’s just prolonging someone’s hurt if they’re not gonna get back together with me. I’d rather him say, this is a break but I still want you or, no we’re completely done.
