Do I block him
I’m having a hard time trying to decide if blocking my ex on social media and my
ohone is the right choice. I stare at my phone all day and am so sad when I see he hasn’t texted me. We broke up, again on Monday. We didn’t talk for 2 days and then he texted me pissed off that he thought I blocked him on social media. I didn’t, I wasn’t ready to block him yet so I deactivated my accounts knowing I couldn’t watch what he was doing. Today I was going to delete the contact and the text thread of 2.5 years, but I don’t know if I should block the number before I do it that way I know he can’t get in touch with me and I can’t unblock him.
I know this time it has to be over, but I’m hurting and just want to feel better but I’m not sure I am ready to completely let go even though I know I have to.
every moment I want to text him, ask him all the questions of why , but nothing is going to help, so why can’t I just let go
Because letting go can be really hard. I think it was a smart move to take a social break for awhile, however, then you can't see your other friends. You could try "muting" him for awhile on social platforms. That way you can see other people and don't have to mess with him. That is what I did with my ex of 5 years.
I wanted to block his number after he broke off our engagement. I did delete the text thread. But I didn't block it. And I didn't delete the number. I decided to wait until I wasn't emotionally frazzled to do so, and then after awhile it was just another contact number. If he wanted to contact me, he would have just grabbed a different phone the second he realized I had blocked his number anyhow and it would have just made him mad. One thing you don't have to do...with a text/call...is you don't have to reply.
My issue is that all I want to do is talk to Him. I want to call or reply. But I shouldn’t I should just leave it alone but it’s all I can think about