Girlfriend breaks up with me for no reason every month around the same time
I'm 17 turning 18 in October and I have or had whatever, 20 year old girl friend and she dumped me for no reason and she's done it before and came back but the pain is just unbearable i don't want to lose her just 2 days ago she was telling me how much she misses me and loves me and yesterday breaks up with me and says she doesn't want to see me anymore how can I get her back and see that she's doing wrong and she's much nicer in person then on the phone
@Peaceandquiet98
Wow so she dose this a lot did she say anything to you when you both got together if she keeps doing this your relationship won't last sorry to say but when girls break up and go back and break up again with there partner over and over and over never ending always on the same day every month doesn't that seem a bit suspicious to you every month on the same day seems like she's up to something I'm guessing it doesn't seem right if she really loves you and cares about you and misses you she wouldn't be doing this every month to you it seems weird once she's nice to you and comes back ask a lot of questions to her talk to her as to why she keeps doing this she's hurting you each time each month over n over again which isn't good for you and your health and your state of mind she's causing you pain every time she dose this to you and you keep taking her back each time she comes crawling to you you have to stop and think what about you what about your feelings your hurting what about your heart health your mind cause its probably going 10000 miles around n around in your head thinking what she's doing every time she leaves you
@BrightRedFlower2322 It's the only way to stop the pain
@Peaceandquiet98 that's what happened to me. In all honesty you will find your breaking point. I had to deal with a 2 year on and off relationship in which my family and friends hated him. I finally found my breaking point from him and i actually feel more confident and careful if a guy finds me interesting. If you need someone to talk to about it or actually want advice i been through it all. Like he did the same thing and i felt the same exact way.
@Peaceandquiet98
I know now you feel like the only way to stop the pain is to keep taking her back, one day you will feel like enough is enough! Like @Wintergirl98 said, one day you will reach the breaking point. I would say, the sooner you reach it the better. I think a lot of us has gone through a situation like this, we feel like we are so attached to them that we put up with all the pain just to keep them in our lives. But, one day you will ask yourself if this is worth it? And the moment you feel like no, it will take a while to accept the answer. But, life will be better after you do. After all, you deserve someone who shows you everyday that they want to stay!
You are young and there's a beautiful life ahead of you! Wait for the right people! :)
